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Dear Maurice,

I have been dating a married woman for 2 years and everything has been swell. The problem we are having is that she wants to take our relationship to the next level as she puts it. Don’t get me wrong I feel for her but for me it has always been about being the other man but not ‘the man’.

Maurice asks,

Does this mean she wants to leave her husband?

He replies,

She hasn’t told me directly but I sense that may be her agenda.

Maurice replies,

I am guessing the initial arrangement was about you being her fling, her side kick and now you feel she is changing the terms and conditions.

He replies,

Exactly.

Maurice replies,

You must have seen this eventuality knowing that women are not very good at sustaining the ‘friends with benefits’ contract.

He replies,

But it was her idea to maintain our affair and take it no further.

Maurice replies,

I am not surprised, women tend to make up the rules and change the terms depending on how attached they get.

He replies,

About a month ago she said the three words and that spooked me. Even though it was during a sexual episode I knew things had changed drastically. Being called ‘baby’ I am used to but to hear her say I love you was a bit much for me. I remember I lost my erection immediately and since then I don’t feel like having sex with her as much as I did. Is that normal?

Maurice replies,

It is your mindset towards her that has changed, she is still the woman you have been sexually playing with but after you heard those words the lust part of male attraction to a woman was severed. Have you told her how you feel?

He replies,

I am afraid to hurt her.

Maurice replies,

Unless you are planning to vanish from her life you need to step up and tell her the truth. Tell her you don’t wish for things to change between you, it may hurt her but at least it will be the truth rather than pretending you are fine which will lead to other problems manifesting like you losing your sexual desire for her which is far more hurtful if you cannot gain an erection. Question, for how long are you planning to have this affair with her?

He replies,

We have a lot in common and we are always having fun around each other so I was going with the flow knowing I will only be her side dish. That is the big turn on, the fact that she is not mine but she gives all her attention to me. I am not the husband type, marriage has never been on the cards. We are both well off corporate people and I love my life just the way it is.

Maurice replies,

Even though I feel you should tell her, I must warn you, telling her how you feel about the love thing does have its downfalls, it might change her mindset about you and dilute your current bond.  Your alternative choice is to let things play out as normal and if she reacts more affectionate than normal and utters those words again you can address it at that point. Be prepared, once you let the cat out of the bag things between you will most likely change.

He replies,

Thanks bro, I hope things work out, I would hate to lose a woman who is so sexually compatible with me.

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Dear Maurice,

I have been married for 6 weeks and I feel like leaving?

Maurice asks,

Why would you want to leave at such an early stage of your marriage?

She replies,

I am not over my ex.

Maurice replies,

How long have you been with your man who is now your husband?

She replies,

We have been together for 3 years.

Maurice asks,

So you managed 3 years together and got wed but now you want out, am I missing something?

She replies,

I broke up with my ex one year before I met my husband but in all that time he has been there, in short I have been having an affair with my ex, I know it sounds weird but we never got over each other and as an avid reader of your blog I must admit that its more sexual. My husband is a sweet guy but in the bedroom he lacks the prowess to satisfy me. He is not adventurous at all and I like women too which my ex was into but my husband made it clear years ago that he would never indulge or tolerate such behaviour.

Maurice asks,

Are you saying that you married for the wrong reasons or were you never really in love with your husband?

She replies,

A bit of both. My husband is a provider and my ex is a sexual lover who I cannot get out of my head. I have tried repeatedly to shut him out but I have always found myself in his bed. He has a hold on me and despite not being the ideal husband material he knows how to get me there, he keeps me engaged and interested. Many a times I have found myself climaxing while having sex with my husband while thinking about my ex. I also think about my ex when I masturbate.

Maurice replies,

My question is only one, why now? You had the chance to leave before you got married.

She replies,

I guess reality hit home, that I am going to spend the rest of my life with a man I adore for his drive and achievements but I do not love him the way a wife should love her husband. One of my friends told me the same thing, she urged me to leave 9 months ago but so many things were under way and family involvement was so pressuring. I kind of convinced myself that I would develop feelings but that has not been the case.

Maurice replies,

I am curious, was your ex at your wedding and does your husband know him?

She replies,

Funny you ask. Yes he was there, and yes my husband knows about him. It was my husband who said it was fine to invite my ex so I did. They sometimes bump into each other and have a drink.

Maurice replies,

Little does your husband know that a man who shares a drink with him is also sleeping with his wife. I must ask, do you get a kick out of this scenario where you are living a double life?

She replies,

Truth be told it was thrilling at first but a few months ago I felt guilty because my husband truly loves me and I know he is the faithful type, if you ask me a bit too faithful. I hate that I am hurting him behind his back and when I leave he will be heart broken but I can’t pretend to love him nor can I continue with the affair.

Maurice asks,

Lets assume you leave, then what, do you and you ex plan to hookup and be exclusive?

She replies,

We have not planned nor made promises to each other all I know is that my ex is the man I want to be with right now. In months to come I may wake up and find that I made the worst mistake but I am willing to risk it because currently I don’t feel like going home to my man. When I receive his texts of love it hurts me that I do not have a mutual loving reply and sometimes I either ignore or make up a line to make him happy.

Maurice replies,

What I have deduced from your sentiments is that you want to rekindle the fire with your ex but as you decide on your journey from here I need you to be fully aware that your ex will most likely add value of fun and nothing else. If I may speculate, your ex is probably stimulated by the fact that he can have you yet you belong to another man. Despite your sexual connection which I believe is pretty strong, your ex will never fulfill an exclusive status in your life. If you can accept that as part of the terms and conditions then you will not face disappointments in the future. I do not advocate for couples to settle for less or live together for the sake of societal rules and expectations but I need to point out that your lusty affair may have an expiry date and when that does happen I hope you will have no regrets.

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Dear Maurice,
I am currently dating a beautiful woman who I met 2 months ago. I am 31 and she is 25. When we met we quickly hit it off and within a week we were officially boyfriend and girlfriend and so far things are good apart from one thing that has happened about 4 times.

 
Maurice asks,
What is going on at this early stage of your relationship?

 
He replies,
I might be over reacting but I needed your sincere advice about her calling another man’s name when we are having sex, is she in love with this other guy?

 
Maurice replies,
First let’s get your scenario into context; are you saying she calls out another man’s name while you are having intercourse or at what stage does she call his name?

 
He replies,
She calls out his name when she is having an orgasm but not before that. It has not affected my sex drive for her but I need to know whether she will be running back to the guy?

 
Maurice asks,
Do you know who the guy is by any chance?

 
He replies,
Yes he is her ex boyfriend.

 
Maurice asks,
When did she break up with him and for how long did she date him?

 
He replies,
They broke up 5 months ago and they had dated for 6 years. Am I some kind of rebound for her?

 
Maurice replies,
You could indeed be her rebound however is she aware that you know about her name calling?

 
He replies,
Yes, I asked her the first time it happened then she cried and apologized but I comforted her and told her I just need to understand her feelings for her ex. She then told me that she was very much in love with him and that she wants to move on after he cheated on her several times but a part of her still feels for him. I asked her if I should give her space, she declined my suggestion to leave her alone and told me that she will not allow her ex to ruin her future with me. Her exact words were “I want you by my side always I am never going back to him”.

 
Maurice replies,
Now my good man you seem to be a sensible man who looks at the rational logic rather than react emotionally. That is a good trait. Considering she seems to know what she wants you need to ask yourself why she calls out his name when she is experiencing an orgasm, the answer is simple, it’s because his name was the default name for 6 years. You are not the first man to experience this name calling scenario but what puts you apart from other men is that you did not let it affect your sex drive after all it’s your penis causing her orgasms which in itself is a bonus considering orgasms for many women are a scarcity. Question, do you want to continue dating her?

 
He replies,
Yes I do.

 
Maurice replies,
Good man. Even if you left her and met some other woman she might end up being a mute in bed so I would stick with the screamer if I were you. In my opinion, what you need to do is be patient, her emotional attachment at some point will exhaust itself and before you know it, it will be your name she screams out.

 
He replies,
What you are saying it’s my job to fade out that other guy from her memory and I will. Thanks for your advice.

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I had the pleasure of a sit down with a 6 men and my findings while we debated over the scent of a woman were not surprising at all, though there were a few preferences that were ‘different’ if I can use that word. The first thing I can confirm that they all agreed on is that your expensive perfumes only play a role when you go out socializing.

When it boils down to the primal sexual instincts your natural scent will arouse and attract a man more than any perfume. A woman’s natural scent is seductive. Many of you rush to shower off all the scent that turns us on, then you proudly return to the room smelling like banana flavored cookies or rosemary, are we about to have sex or feature on an episode of hell’s kitchen!

One of the men mentioned something that registered so well with all of us. He said that he loves the smell of a woman’s sweat, he also described the scent of a vagina after a long day at work, he especially likes to go down on his woman before she showers, which led to 4 of us, myself included, admitting to smelling a woman’s panty that has been thrown amongst the dirty clothes to be a turn on. Just the thought of it is arousing me as I type these words. That is how powerful your female scent is, it induces our sexual instincts to kick in.

Did you know that a pool of men in society can detect an ovulating woman. Whenever a man smells a woman’s body that has not been diluted by artificial fragrances his testosterone levels elevate, the same applies to a man smelling a garment of an ovulating woman, his testosterone levels are heightened. The ovulating woman may also have a behavioral change, she may be more flirtatious, she may be open to exploring her fantasies and zero in on her mating choice. The above are characteristics that men can pick on and embark on their instinct to conquer their prey.

One guy even pointed out that like him, many of his friends are seduced by the scent of rural girls, so all you Chanel women, you may smell great in accordance to fashion but on the scale of turning men on your scoring is low. Before you defend your perfume take note that before modern age perfumes were born men still craved sex and why is that, simple, a woman has always had the natural scent that will lure a man sexually.

Lets go back to that rural girl, why is she so seductive you may ask, well that smokey scent can be a major turn on. Many men may not admit it but they have lost their virginity to rural girls somewhere in a bush or in a maize plantation. She may not bathe in lavender bubbles but her body and vagina smell soooo good. In the context of seduction she can gain a man an erection much quicker because she smells as per what nature intended.

But I must point out a contradiction on the part of some of my fellow brothers who make some or us sound weird. Stop telling your women to shower in the name of wanting her to be clean because when you go out into the social arena and lust drives you to suck a random woman’s vagina and she orgasms in your mouth, why is it that you do not apply your bathing before sex doctrine on her. I will tell you why, because a moment presented itself and the random woman’s vagina aroused you so much that you were down there long enough for her to orgasm in your mouth. Yet at home you force your woman to shower and your sex is usually short lived and consciously you can tell that your ability to concentrate and sustain your erection is much harder because she smells like tulips. When you remove the one ingredient that elevates your testosterone you gradually kill your sexual urge towards your partner and end up licking foreign vaginas.

What was very clear is that some men are true to what really turns them on while others are influenced buy modern trends and believes that may hinder their ability to gain full arousal. There was a mention of something that many men like but unfortunately a portion of women decline, at the point of ejaculation many men love to release their load on a woman’s breasts. Some men are more extreme and want to off load in a woman’s mouth. The reality is a man ejaculating in your mouth may not be every woman’s cup of tea but denying him your breasts as a landing pad for his soldiers is just selfish.If I may point out, the protein in semen is healthy for your skin, you will not find better lotion in the market, that is fact.

So what do I conclude, if there was a contest between artificial scent and a woman’s scent, the woman’s natural scent would win hands down. I especially like it when I can smell a woman’s vaginal fluids on her neck…. mmmmh that thought.

Have a scentlicious day.

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Dear Maurice,

I am 29 years old, married, no kids and I believe I have made the worst choice in my life.

Maurice asks,

Why would you think that?

She replies,

I have always had this dream from when I was a little girl that I would marry that guy who could make all my dreams come true.

Maurice asks,

Are you saying that is not that man you have in your life?

She replies,

That is just it, I do have that man but on the morning of the wedding its like I experienced a flash back of my time with him which has been 2 years and realised that I fell for the comforts. As I walked up towards him, he was smiling as you would at your wedding but he was happy because he knew that he was a great provider and I made him believe that was the core of my happiness. All the pampering and luxuries clouded my true feelings. When I hug him during our photo shoot I felt guilty because I felt nothing for him but I held it together. I don’t even know why I ever told him that I loved him because I never did. Yes, we had awesome times together but that was it. Maurice, I just married the wrong guy and I am confused.

Maurice asks,

When did you get married?

She replies,

We got married 6 weeks ago. Our honeymoon was about him even though I acted as if I enjoyed every moment. For most women a honeymoon in the Maldives would be a dream come true but for me it was a time to reflect. In the 3 weeks away we only had what he considers as sex once and he seemed ok with that, is that even normal, he is 35 and quite athletic. I wanted to get married so badly that I sacrificed what I knew as happiness.

Maurice asks,

What do you mean?

She replies,

I was in a secret relationship for 5 years with a man who did not have much but every time I was with him I felt happy, it was a feeling beyond just mere love, we had a connection, we went through trials together but we were not meant to be.

Maurice asks,

Why were you not meant to be?

She replies,

We came from different social circles and my parents and extended family were totally against any kind of contact with him. It got so bad that my Dad threatened to complicate his life and have him sacked because my Dad did his homework and realised he is golfing buddies with my ex’s boss. My ex is proud and after the threats and belittling from my Dad and family he gave up and closed off from me. He told me that I did little to defend him. What could I do Maurice, I have never confronted my Dad as if I was defying him, I was not brought up to do so. My parents have always steered my siblings and I and those are the unwritten rules.

Maurice replies,

What you are saying is, your husband was the acceptable pedigree of man for your parents. If I may speculate, he must be from a wealthy family with a handsome elite school education, am I right?

She replies,

Yes, you are.

Maurice asks,

My dear you are in a predicament that befalls many women and some consciously accept a life and marriage of convenience and others leave the marriage.

She replies,

I would shame my family, leaving is not an option. Do you think I can train myself to love him?

Maurice replies,

We both know the answer to that. You do not yet have children, the only thing that ties you to him is a certificate and societal expectations. You do have options but only you can make them. I am not going to feed you with false hope because in my experience with your scenario things rarely work out for the better especially for women. I recommend that you seek legal advise on separation considering its only been 6 weeks or you can contend with a marriage of convenience where he will in most cases be happy and content with status quo while you wallow in psychological misery for the rest of your life.

My advise to anyone getting married, go with your heart, defend the one you love and make a stand, people, your parents included will one day respect you for standing up for what you believe is good for you. Family making choices such as who you should marry is wrong in my opinion otherwise they should marry the person not you. When the relationship starts to fall apart many who encouraged the union are never their to help you pick the pieces so be wise and make the right choice that favours you and only you.

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Dear Maurice,

I had everything I wanted to say at the tip of my tongue but now as I type I am wondering where I should begin. I have been married for 4 years and honestly I regret getting into this marriage. In fact I confess that on my wedding day I had my doubts about the future and true to what I felt back then I am today a very miserable woman. We have one child who is 2 years old and I feel like leaving with him.

Maurice asks,

What is happening in your marriage to cause you to want to leave?

She replies,

The question is more like what is not happening? My husband is not attentive at all. Once in awhile to shut me up he throws money at me and thinks that is what I signed up for, he is mistaken. He is such a selfish man. Since we got married he has changed into a man I do not recognise. I find myself buying all the groceries while he spends his money on trips with the boys. My husband has always been a outdoor person, he loves camping in the wild but you would think that his priorities would have changed especially after our child was born, but that is not the case. I am a mother and a wife and he is still the fun loving man I met 6 years ago. Our sex life is non existent. The last time we had sex was last year in August and before that was in November 2012. I am so tempted to cheat but I fear what he may do if he were to find out one day. He has a nasty temper on him. I am a sexually starved 31 year old woman, I can’t live like this anymore. I have confronted him with all our issues even in writing but he decides to ignore the issues stating that I am a nagging wife and that is why things between us are the way they are.

Maurice asks,

When you met him 6 years ago what kind of a man was he?

She replies,

He was kind and generous, whenever he was around we would have a blast together trotting the Country.

Maurice asks,

What do you mean by whenever he was around?

She replies,

When we met he was working in Dubai and would come home at least 2 times a year. Though we were on Skype everyday.

Maurice replies,

So what you are saying is that apart from the episodes of fun and your Skype based relationship you never got to live together before marriage?

She replies,

No we did not.

Maurice replies,

Based on your side of the story I must say that your foundation was most likely weak and that is why you are in your current predicament. You never really got to know each other. Having fun with someone who in my opinion is on some form of romance holiday visiting his girlfriend is not a basis to step into the shoes of matrimony.

She replies,

I know, I saw that ages ago but ignored the signs. What do you advise because I can not live with a man who has not woken up to the reality of providing and caring for his family? Not forgetting that I need an attentive man in all areas, I am still a woman and I need to be reminded that I am sexy.

Maurice replies,

Simple question, are you in love with your husband?

She replies,

I love him and care for him but I am not in love with him anymore. I don’t even think I ever was.

Maurice replies,

Will your husband change, I highly doubt it but miracles do happen. Do you want to continue a relationship of convenience where you will most likely begin cheating on your husband, do you want to weather the storm till death do you part? The ball is in your court. Only you can map out what future you would like to have. That said, we both know you already have one foot out the door. Are you prepared to face the World, a new start for you and your baby. There are many questions to be answered, choices to be made but all I can tell you is whatever you decide make sure it benefits you as an individual.

She replies,

Thank you, I needed to know that I am not a bad person for wanting to leave. I will let you know what I decide.

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Dear Maurice,

I do hope this finds you well. I want to thank you for your advise during our session with my wife last year. We both left with clarity of what we needed to commit to and I believe I have done my part since we last met you. After spending what I thought was a perfect Valentines with my wife she shocked me on the following Monday when she told me she was leaving me. We had spent the weekend in Watamu and according to me it was a memorable time. I cannot believe that after everything she did to me by having an affair she has decided to leave yet I had forgiven her and move on hoping to salvage our marriage and spend the rest of my life with her as I once vowed.

Maurice asks,

What triggered her to reveal such news after your weekend break together?

He replies,

I asked her why now, I asked her why didn’t she leave me last year when I caught her cheating. She told me that she had planned to leave me after Valentines. She wanted to give me a weekend to remember before she left. That is probably the most gruel thing that anyone has ever done to me. Just as you had advised last year I had altered my mindset so that I can give our marriage a new lease of life only for her to turn around and drop a bomb shell. Matheka I have been nothing but loyal to that woman for the last 17 years and now she has turned my World upside down.

Maurice asks,

Where is she?

He replies,

She moved out and is now living with her boyfriend as she calls him.

Maurice asks,

You mean the same man she had an affair with?

He replies,

Yes. How could she leave me for him. She confidently told me that he was the man for her and that she had invested in an apartment, without my knowledge if I may add, where they are living together. It is hurtful to hear from your own wife that she has never connected with you the way another man does. She was bond enough to tell me that our sex life could never compare with what she has now. How can a woman who you gave everything be so heartless.

Maurice replies,

This makes no sense. You both looked committed to the marriage. She was so remorseful at our sessions, if anything I recall her saying she was ashamed of her actions because you were her college sweetheart, her soul mate, the man who stood by her no matter what for all those years.

He replies,

I guess she was not as committed. She has moved in with a man and left me with the kids. I know our kids are grown and resilient but how do you just up and leave and try justify by saying the kids have known for a long time that their parents have problems. What kind of mother does that! That man she is living with is even jobless, she provides for him. I just don’t get it. Now I see why my male friends always warned me about being overly good to a woman. Most of them have affairs with other women and I was the good husband who evidently gets rewarded with back stabbing action for his loyalty. Matheka how do you do it? How do you trust another human being in this case women with all the cases you must have dealt with? I am perplexed and annoyed, was it all worth it. I feel I should have been the bastard of my marriage maybe then I would still have my wife in my life. Is that what women crave, a man who constantly breaks all his vows and their hearts. From my perspective it seems so.

Maurice replies,

I know some women do not deserve the men they have but please don’t label every woman as your wife. If you remember I told both of you that only your mutual choices and dedication will make sure that your marriage prevails. Clearly your wife had other plans considering she had set in motion plans to create another home for herself. In life you cannot vet the one you fall in love with and neither are you assured that your love for each other will mutually survive. Love alone does not solidify marriage or any relationship. Constant partnership and communication is the key that drives the wheel of matrimony.

When I first met you I could tell who was in the relationship to stay, you showcased a persona of a man who everyday makes it his duty to remind his woman how beautiful she is, a man who takes his husband duties as serious as he takes his career, and that was confirmed by your wife. I quote her, she could not fault you at all, you were her perfect man. There is no justification for her actions but in the context of relationship dynamics she may have felt over powered by your natural love for her. Yes, it makes no sense but trust me couples leave each other for the oddest of reasons. No one is guaranteed what people call eternal love or long term partnership.

He replies,

I have somehow in all the confusion accepted that she has left my life but how do I move on, how do I start all over again unless I commit to loneliness?

Maurice replies,

My good man it would be easy for me to tell you to move on like her and have fun and meet new women but that is not the practical solution. What you need is a fresh start, easier said than done but you must strive to find what really makes you happy, it could be a hobby, it could be something you used to do but stopped when you got committed to married life. Make yourself happy first and if you are lucky to meet someone who will add to that joy let that be a bonus. Humans have a habit of seeking happiness from external forces, you then rely on someone to make you happy. That should never be the case.

He replies,

I hear you Matheka. Thank you for allowing me to share my story.

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Dear Maurice,

I attended one of your sessions last year and I wanted you to clarify what you said about men needing their home to be their comfort zone.

Maurice replies,

Men, just like man’s best friend need to be trained in the context of feeling secure to go home. Every relationship has its ups and down and when it comes to the major discussions and disagreements it is important that everyman feels that his home is a safe haven. When you want to quarrel you need to avoid that negative energy in your home. It is very common for  a woman to pull her man into their bedroom to tackle issues but over time psychologically that bedroom for the man turns into a interrogation room instead of being the room of intimacy. Which means when he goes into that bedroom he is liking expecting the worst and yet it could be the day you want to submit to him sexually. So what am I saying, find a location(s), outside your home, where whenever you want to discuss ‘serious’ matters you and your man can tackle issues at that location.

Over the years I have interviewed women who date married men and many have the same story to tell. “When he is at my place he is relaxed, sometimes he comes straight from work and sleeps for hours, when I ask him why he rushes to my place, he says at his home he can never relax, most of the time there is always an issue awaiting him”. And then I ask her, do you quarrel him about issues? And she says “Yes I do, but I do not put him down and I have taken time to study him so I know when and how to address him”. She then adds “In my home we discuss small issues that won’t scare him away, when I want to address serious matters I take him away from the house”. In short she is saying she does not want the man to associate her home with negative energy which in the context of social science makes a lot of sense.

On a personal level, I would be more inclined to go home knowing that my home is a safe zone. When a man receives a call from his woman and hears “we need to talk” he should not automatically think of the worst, unfortunately that is the case in many homes. We are not perfect as humans but I believe certain choices and social modification can influence positive energy in our homes.

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Dear Maurice,

I met this guy online and we hit it off, we chatted for almost one year keeping regular chats going. My problem is this guy came home for holiday and we had a blast for 5 weeks and now he has gone cold after he got back to the States. Did I do or say something wrong, the last time we spoke just after he arrived back he said he did not want to hurt me in anyway and that he is not sure about putting me through a long distance relationship because he once got hurt when his ex cheated on him.

Maurice asks,

How recent was this?

She replies,

He was in Kenya over the festive season from end of November till 2nd January 2014.

Maurice asks,

It has only been 4 days so why are you jumping the gun so soon?

She replies,

I know its only been a few days but I can tell there is a difference in his tone when we talk over the phone.

Maurice asks,

I need to know a few things about your relationship with this guy. Did you ever label your relationship, are you his girlfriend?

She replies,

No, we never labelled our relationship.

Maurice asks,

Did he call you loving names that would suggest you were his woman and did he make any promises about your future together?

She replies,

Online we would flirt a lot and tease each other, he only called me by my name or sometimes he would refer me as ‘babie’. Actually he liked the phrase ‘whats up babie’. He would compliment me and say sweet things.

Maurice asks,

Was he sexual in his flirt? Did he describe things he would do to you if he ever met you?

She replies,

Yes he was very open when it came to the discussion of sex. He had a way with words that would do things to me. Why do I sense you are trying to imply that this guy just wanted sex from me. I do not believe he could be that kind of a guy after all the effort he put in communicating with me when he could have been chatting a woman nearer him.

Maurice replies,

My dear I am surprised that you are attempting to ignore the obvious. In my opinion it was a holiday fling and now he is trying to play you with the ‘its not you its me’ story. No doubt you must have had fun with him to want to hold onto him but you also need to face the reality of that it was just a fling.

She replies,

Why would he hurt me now so soon after he left. I told him so much about my past and he understood me. Why would a man say he is looking forward to seeing you for 11 months only to dump you after 5 weeks. I know he likes me, he told me things that I cannot share so I know he wants to be with me but because of the distance it complicates things.

Maurice replies,

Based on your response I am puzzled why you asked for my advice. I have dealt with this scenario plenty of times and usually it does not end well if you fantasize over a future that will not be. Have you told him how you feel about him?

She replies,

I told him that I did not plan to but I love him.

Maurice asks,

At what point did you tell him?

She replies,

I told him at the airport. Before he came home I had told him that he was my ideal man because of the way he makes me feel.

Maurice asks,

What was his response, did he return the same sentiment?

She replies,

He would say something like ‘I am glad I make you feel that way’.

Maurice asks,

How old are you both and what does he do in the States? And did he mention a future online or off line?

She replies,

I am 28 and he is 39. He lives and works in the States, he has been there since he was 17. His last words were ‘thank you for an awesome time, I will miss you. I will let you know when I arrive’. No, we did not discuss our future.

Maurice asks,

Does he have kids?

She replies,

He has 2 children from a previous relationship. He did say he wanted to have my babies during pillow talk. Was that a joke?

Maurice replies,

I don’t believe it was a joke but I would like to bet that he said that under some sexual spell. It is common for men to author such words while engaged in a sexual act, more often than not its more of a self ego boost trip, affirming to oneself that they can produce semen which can make you pregnant. The thought is positively stimulating, its when you declare that you are pregnant that the nightmare begins. In short, don’t take a man’s words too seriously when he has an erection.

My advice to you is that you take each day as it comes. You probably scared him with ‘I love you’ but only time will tell what his true intention was or is towards you. Long distance relationships are difficult as it is so in your case without any idea of a mutual future please do not have expectations that may lead you down a path of disappointments. Your communication initiation should not be one sided, if you feel you are initiating chats without much effort from him then that will be a sign that your flame is not burning as bright as it once did. If you find yourself hurting emotionally instead of smiling then you know it is time to cut him loose.

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Dear Maurice,

I hope this mail finds you well.

I wanted you to know that after your sessions my husband and I are now back together again. As you know it has been a long journey to where we are today. He forgave me and I forgave him for giving up on us. We took your advise and decided what happened in the past is in the past and for us to make it as a couple we cannot move forward with baggage. You will be pleased to know that 2 months ago I joined him in Bangor and we are more in love than we ever were. We hope and pray that you will continue your work so that others like us can survive the turmoils of life.

My husband and I wish you a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year.

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I have always said that marriage is not difficult. It is the decisions and choices that couples make that make marriage difficult. Every relationship has its ups and downs however over coming your troubles is about mutual commitment. It takes two to tango not one. Those that don’t survive usually have one partner who is not pulling their weight to resolving issues. If you have fallen out of love then come out clean and say it so that you can deliver the truth and give your partner some form of closure. If you still have real feelings for your partner then speak your mind today and seize the moment to let them know how much they mean to you for tomorrow is not promised to anyone.

Merry Christmas.

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