I have been married for 6 weeks and I feel like leaving?
Maurice asks,
Why would you want to leave at such an early stage of your marriage?
She replies,
I am not over my ex.
Maurice replies,
How long have you been with your man who is now your husband?
She replies,
We have been together for 3 years.
Maurice asks,
So you managed 3 years together and got wed but now you want out, am I missing something?
I broke up with my ex one year before I met my husband but in all that time he has been there, in short I have been having an affair with my ex, I know it sounds weird but we never got over each other and as an avid reader of your blog I must admit that its more sexual. My husband is a sweet guy but in the bedroom he lacks the prowess to satisfy me. He is not adventurous at all and I like women too which my ex was into but my husband made it clear years ago that he would never indulge or tolerate such behaviour.
Maurice asks,
Are you saying that you married for the wrong reasons or were you never really in love with your husband?
She replies,
A bit of both. My husband is a provider and my ex is a sexual lover who I cannot get out of my head. I have tried repeatedly to shut him out but I have always found myself in his bed. He has a hold on me and despite not being the ideal husband material he knows how to get me there, he keeps me engaged and interested. Many a times I have found myself climaxing while having sex with my husband while thinking about my ex. I also think about my ex when I masturbate.
Maurice replies,
My question is only one, why now? You had the chance to leave before you got married.
She replies,
I guess reality hit home, that I am going to spend the rest of my life with a man I adore for his drive and achievements but I do not love him the way a wife should love her husband. One of my friends told me the same thing, she urged me to leave 9 months ago but so many things were under way and family involvement was so pressuring. I kind of convinced myself that I would develop feelings but that has not been the case.
Maurice replies,
I am curious, was your ex at your wedding and does your husband know him?
She replies,
Funny you ask. Yes he was there, and yes my husband knows about him. It was my husband who said it was fine to invite my ex so I did. They sometimes bump into each other and have a drink.
Maurice replies,
Little does your husband know that a man who shares a drink with him is also sleeping with his wife. I must ask, do you get a kick out of this scenario where you are living a double life?
She replies,
Truth be told it was thrilling at first but a few months ago I felt guilty because my husband truly loves me and I know he is the faithful type, if you ask me a bit too faithful. I hate that I am hurting him behind his back and when I leave he will be heart broken but I can’t pretend to love him nor can I continue with the affair.
Maurice asks,
Lets assume you leave, then what, do you and you ex plan to hookup and be exclusive?
She replies,
We have not planned nor made promises to each other all I know is that my ex is the man I want to be with right now. In months to come I may wake up and find that I made the worst mistake but I am willing to risk it because currently I don’t feel like going home to my man. When I receive his texts of love it hurts me that I do not have a mutual loving reply and sometimes I either ignore or make up a line to make him happy.
Maurice replies,
What I have deduced from your sentiments is that you want to rekindle the fire with your ex but as you decide on your journey from here I need you to be fully aware that your ex will most likely add value of fun and nothing else. If I may speculate, your ex is probably stimulated by the fact that he can have you yet you belong to another man. Despite your sexual connection which I believe is pretty strong, your ex will never fulfill an exclusive status in your life. If you can accept that as part of the terms and conditions then you will not face disappointments in the future. I do not advocate for couples to settle for less or live together for the sake of societal rules and expectations but I need to point out that your lusty affair may have an expiry date and when that does happen I hope you will have no regrets.
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Maurice, what do people want, I follow your blog and I am amazed how undecided or is it confused people are about what they want in life. Somewhere out there is a woman looking for this man that this woman wants to leave. Are humans ever satisfied with what they have?
Good point Anne…was equally wondering what is wrong with us as human beings..we ought to be grateful when we find and are blessed with something good..especially when we too can recognise it…the grass is not greener on the other side.
Your ex will never have you as a wife, leave your hubby and your ex will dump you, think with your head not the cat.
AKMuinde
Such is life
Maurice I need to squirt and I hear you give a woman the best feeling ever. I hope you do house calls.
Olive, can i be of help?
I feel for the husband.
Maurice I like how you think, its a turn on just saying.
Hypergamy is rife! Chic leaves dude, gets another stays with him for 3 yrs, gets engaged, and married…then, 6 weeks later…reality hits…all the while muppet’s been having an affair with x dude! Shit’s hilarious, if only it weren’t so serious.
Very interesting blog. And interested in the July session….
By the way this July is cold, who feels the same but I am not doing exs?