I have noticed a trend and it needs to end today, it needs to end now. Women keep telling me that my fellow Kenyan brothers are unwilling to learn how to pleasure them to the point they fantasies over some imaginary man who can ‘take them there’. I want to believe that many of these women are wrong but too often do I hear the same story across the Country.
I have a passion of liberating people sexually and especially when I receive positive feedback from couples it makes my work worthwhile. However, there seems to be a category of married men who have refused to explore their limits, which translates to they are not willing to gain skills that will pleasure their wife. Correct me if I am wrong but I have always known men to want to please their woman sexually or have times changed. I am no special case, I am a Kenyan man like any other but at one point in my life I was man enough to say “I do not know everything about women and sex but I am willing to learn”. Now here I am with a finger more effective than most penises and I have no apologies to make. I also have the ability to read a woman’s body. How did I acquire this skill. It is simple, I was willing to learn. I did not have the attitude that just because I was born a man and I have a penis I naturally know it all. That is shallow thinking and I would like to think that there are men out there who want to join the club of giving a woman an orgasm. It is a woman’s right to have an orgasm. And it is our duty as men to make sure she orgasms whether through your penis, fingers or tongue.
Trust me, the club has its rewards. Wanting to acquire new knowledge about sex does not mean you are currently inadequate it just means that in your hood your male neighbours will start to view you as the alpha because they frequently hear your wife calling out your name in a orgasmic context. Wouldn’t you want to be the envy of your social circles, when people are complaining about what is lacking in their bedroom you just sit there with a grin on your face.
Gents, we were not born with female bodily attributes so lets not pretend we are experts because frankly I am getting tired of women complaining about men who can’t kiss, on a serious note how lazy can your lips be, how can they lack coordination, and men who handle nipples as if they are searching for a radio frequency. I am also tired of hearing how some men go down on a woman and instead of experiencing pleasure she feels like she is under going surgery. This has to stop. Ask her how she likes it and she will tell you and direct you to a path of pleasure.
I am not saying that women do not have their faults, they do especially those women who firmly hold your penis during a blow job and handle the penis as if it were a vehicle stick shift, not a pleasant experience at all. But gents the spot light is unfortunately on you because during sex a man will ejaculate but it is not a guarantee that a woman will orgasm. We as men should be open to learning new things, you have nothing to lose (unless she leaves you) and everything to gain. That should be your mentality. Let me remind you, a sexually satisfied woman is a very grateful productive woman.
Together lets prove women wrong, lets show them that Kenyan men are open minded and are willing to move mountains to ensure that sex is equally as exciting for her as it is for you. Gents the ball is in your court, I recall saying that this year 2014 I want to have men in my sessions so if you know you have a click of boys who would like to learn how to stimulate a vagina till a woman squirts, all you have to do is call me and we can start a revolution. If it was up to me there would be a National orgasm day where all women would orgasm in harmony. What an ideal sexually liberated society that would be ‘wet beds everywhere’.
Wherever you are make sure to remind your partner how sexy they are, let them know that they rock your World. Getting used to each other is not an option. It is a key ingredient to relationship survival for both parties to boost each other positively. You initial union was based on attraction and that should never be allowed to die. Gents, I am giving you a challenge and I want you to take it on and let our Nation be known for men who pleasure their woman at a moments notice.
Kudos.Thats a well spoken thoughts.And before someone go on blacklisting sijui ooh kenyan men ooh sijui kenyan ladies….they ought to ask themselves
1.Have they done their part well and to its best?
2.It dont cost a thing to share what ones desire is
3.it gets better when two people choose to learnt the art.
@KP – Well said bruv!
Good job……keep up the good work without giving up many get stubborn to nurse their egos but with time they will catch up…..
Well put. We should put our pride aside and be ready to learn.
Thts so true and important for men to learn. Jst a request men too we need to learn a few tricks,dnt b wassupping ladies only