Dear Maurice,
I want to share a story about my life as a girlfriend and my life as a wife and how I have come to view life. I was married a virgin at the age of 26. My husband was 35. I knew what I wanted and I was a big believer of that special day with someone I love dearly. Little did I know that life had other plans for me. We have now been married for 9 years of which 3 were out of this World and I can proudly say that.
On our fourth year my husband hired an intern and you can guess what was going on behind my back however I only found out when he decided to tell me the truth after a 2 year affair. My husband has 2 kids with me and a one with his youthful mistress.
When I was his girlfriend for 4 years everything was bliss, exciting at all times. I had a man with potential and so did he become successful in his business but with riches came indiscretion, that’s my opinion.
Now we live a life our false friendship and tolerance, but we still have sex, why? because that’s the only thing that I can’t keep myself from, he knows my body inside out and he has plenty of stamina just the way we ladies like it. I have come to understand that marriage is just a status and for me I am having my cake and eating it too. As you can guess we are not exclusive to each other however, ever since we made that pact we have found a renewed love for each others company but I can’t state that we are in-love. Despite all I can’t complain, my World is no-longer about worrying where he is because I too have my fun outside wedlock and yet I still need him for his bedroom duties. It’s a balance of humanly needs and requirements. He is a great father and provider, well he can afford it plus he has no choice but to take care of his family or should I say families.
I know some women will read this and think I am out of my mind but I chose to understand my man and according to me once in a while a man will want to venture out and taste a different vagina. So where not do the same, though I don’t randomly venture out sexually, most of the time I just tease men and go home a happy girl knowing I had all the control, that’s my thrill. Is our marriage the same, no it is not but I am not leaving him and neither is he leave me, we just have a mutual agreement to have our safe fun out there and eventually go home. Oh, we also make time for our kids and play happy family, at times the acting is actually fun and out of it all I get to orgasm. Not a bad deal if you ask me.
Just thought to share. Keep up the good work.
mauricetherapy 
She’s hurting.. really hurting.
Seek help, seek forgiveness. The load you seek to carry alone is too big a load. One tainted with bitterness, the risks of STIs, Cervical cancer, depression et al. You owe it to your kids if not yourself.
mmmh!, so shes proud of that life, vanity of vanities, all is vanity, and there is nothing new under the sun, as solomon said more than 3,000 years ago.