Dear Matheka,
I hope you are well in these strange days that we face. I want to begin by thanking you for your help and persistence in making sure I achieve my manhood goal. I want to share my back story of which led me to contacting you way back in November last year. I had a long time to think about sharing my story and I am ready to do so. It might even help another man who is currently suffering in silence. I am 39 and I have been married for 12 years. By our third year of marriage I found myself in an affair and I must say it was fun but after about 7 months I ended the relationship because she was going to mess my marriage. I stayed faithful till February 2018 when I met this chick and she blew my mind. You can imagine I was 37 and dating a 22 year old who just brought out the man in me. All this while everything at home is good between me and my wife. You would wonder why I was stepping out if all is well at home. But the truth is, having an affair always made me a better husband. I will tell you why. When I met my wife, she was this chick I wanted to impress sexually. You the girl who is both hot in looks and also you get to show her off to your friends during outings and stuff. But as we dated I realized I was not her best fuck and it really hurt. I even contemplated leaving her but lucky she had home maker qualities and that kept her relevant. I really struggled with the fact that I could not make her cum all the time. I even interrogated her about her previous men to know whether they were better and if their dicks were bigger. Today I know it was the wrong path but I overcame all that and decided that even though I cannot make my woman cum, at least I share a friendship with her. What I know is that my wife has my back no matter what.
Maurice replies,
If I may ask, has your wife ever told you that she does not orgasm doing sex with you?
He replies,
Yes, she has always been open with me. Before things got serious as we dated she once told me that she would never mince her words about anything including her sexual pleasure. I used to hear her masturbate after sex once she thought I was asleep. I was never mad at her. I knew my abilities could not make her cum. My one wish was to one day make my wife squirt during sex. I wondered what possibly could I do to satisfy her. I began reading on love making techniques but nothing worked. So, back to my affair with the then 22 year old. This chick confused my World. She told me everything I wanted to hear for almost 2 years. I needed a place to be fucking her so I got her an apartment and she moved in swiftly. It was going well until the day I used her phone and came across a conversation between her and her girlfriend who I knew through her. This was in October last year. They were discussing our sex life. She in detail chatted about my penis size and my lack of skill. All a long she had lied about cumming and loving my dick. It was very demoralizing. I had never felt so inadequate in my life. I do very well in my life, I am more than comfortable but reading her sentiments crushed me. For a minute I felt like I had lost everything, nothing was more valuable. It also made me realize that my affairs were about proving my manhood. Needing a woman who affirms my sexual drive. As you can imagine I discontinued her residence and our relationship. She bitched about how I used her and how she was going to disclose everything to my wife so I made the choice to come clean. I was pleasantly surprised with my wife. She said, she knew about all my deeds and that she was more interested in moving forward rather than quarreling about girls who do not add value to
our life. She sat me down and asked me what would make me happy as a man and also for me to tell her without shame what made me feel like less of a man. I could not believe how calm and collected my wife was so I took the opportunity and told her that I did not know how to make her cum and that I had insecurities about my penis size. She then proceeded to ask me if I was open to a session with a Professional who would eliminate my sexual problems. That is when your name came up and she revealed that she had always wanted us to see you but was afraid of my reaction. Matheka, I am sure you witness these scenarios often, whether man and wife both have a related issue but they suffer in silence to safeguard harmony instead of acquiring the knowledge that can better their bond. So, my positive feedback since our session with my wife. Where do I start. It is a very powerful thing when you finally understand the female anatomy. It used to be a struggle but right now madam can squirt like crazy. I always thought that my love and penis combined would make her cum and that there is our failing as we assume that our union and feelings create conditions for a woman to cum. Matheka, you are a great man. Do you know my wife tells me how satisfied she is and to top it all off,
when your wife tells you that your dick feels harder and heavier, the feeling is beyond words. The combination of penis pump and Goodman has really increased both girth and length. And you were right, penis girth is so important. She says she can feel me more than ever. Obviously I have also seen a change in size since February. I am glad to report that wifey and I are in a very good place. We have decided to take your advice and explore our common fantasies together of which one you are to facilitate for us. Our traditional attitudes towards each other is a thing of the past. Now we explore together. I now also get what you meant by sexual friendship. We did not have it before but now we are nurturing a renewed friendship and perception of our marriage. We cannot thank you enough. I also want to try a combination of Goodman & Vigrx Plus as you had recommend for penis tissue growth. The first week of September works for us. I will share details nearer the date.
Maurice replies,
Your kind of feedback is why I keep doing what I do. Sexual empowerment is both beneficial to body and mind. I am thrilled that you and your wife worked things out. I only wish more couples individually had your level of emotional maturity especially as witnessed with your wife. I look forward to facilitating for your kinky night in September. See you soon.
UPDATE:
For those who have been asking whether I have resumed meeting people for sessions, the answer is YES. Apart from Zoom sessions, I have been having one on one and small group sessions. Most popular sessions are package two (with groups) and four (with individuals). I have a current offer when two women can take up package four together.
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