We are all searching for love, for that ultimate companion…. or are we!!!! After speaking to a number of women over the festive season it was quite a revelation to hear their sentiments about relationships. These women mostly ranged from 30 to 40 years old. As you can imagine there wasn’t much good news about their counterparts. Most of these women have attempted at one stage in their life to mold a man into the kind of man they can be proud of but it has all been in vain. They said that men today struggle to be men. Even those men who are supposed to be ‘mature’ are holding onto their youth by maintaining a playful social life which is not conducive to family life.
The women felt that they had two sets of kids in their home, their actual kids and their husband who according to them is the biggest kid and attention seeker, requiring too much ego soothing and to them that is too much work.
Some were candid enough to say they are fed up with the fighting and false promises and have decided to balance their World to regain their freedom and sanity. To the point that some of these women have four men in their life.
Man number one is their hubby, the home facilitator (provider). He is the man of the house but he is rarely home. The kids call him ‘daddy’ but in her eyes all he ever did was father them. She wishes he could play a more active role in his home as a father and as her man. He forgets that apart from being a mother she has other needs as a woman.
Man number two is the man who explores the lips between her thighs and rocks her World ‘literally’. This is the man who understands her body contours. This is the man who knows that a bed has 4 corners, he takes her for a tour. He makes sure her natural body lotion is smeared across the bed. In short, he makes her womanhood throb.
Number three, well, this guy is what I like to call the ‘will you drop me and my girls’ guy. His car always has fuel, he is available at a moments notice. This guy is usually ‘mr nice guy’ aka delusional or in denial. This guy never stood a chance in the ‘I could do you’ list. He was quickly processed into the friend zone then he graduated into the ‘you are like a brother’ category. In some occasions he is philanthropic enough to assist financially, especially when number one fails to deliver. The saddest thing about this guy is that he will never get to taste her cookie.
Then there is number four. He is the constant in her life. He is her true friend and her confidant. He gets to hear all about the rest, the good and the bad. He advises but never judges. He prides himself by being the man who will always be there come rain or shine.
The question is…. do you know which guy you are????
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I have extended the DvD offer to 20th Jan, instead of 1K per dvd.
You get 2 DvDs:
– A Guide To The Female G-Spot (features squirting) and
– Kamasutra Sexual Positions (sensual love making)
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Maurice, Maurice you never cease to amaze me. At 38 I know all about my womanhood throbbing lol
It is so true men today need to grow up or wear diapers.
Lol. …spot on.
I am 43 and it is sad that the family unit as we once knew it is no more, many couples just tolerate each other and live separate lifes, I hate to admit it but it began with the empowering of us women, we gained a face in society and men lost their grip. I am a divorcee and after 16 years of marriage my opinion is that once we gained a voice in the home men lost theirs.
“Most of these women have attempted at one stage in their life to mold a man into the kind of man they can be proud of but it has all been in vain” – http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x9H1ufqMBg4
Considering the age group, this ‘new age man’ phenomenon is no surprise, and, is by design. No thanks to feminazism, that is rampant nowadays. But rest assured all this will pass, though we have to go through it as a society. These complaints will not reduce…
@Joyce – great observation – ” my opinion is that once we gained a voice in the home men lost theirs.” Just a small correction, that voice was given to you, thanks to the Rockefellers, media, government, and the proliferation of manginas, white knights and men like #3, #4, and #1….technically #2. I recommend books by Dr. Warren Farrell’s ‘The Myth of Male Power’ and Helen Smith’s ‘Men On Strike’ just for some interesting reading. Also literature by Susan Venker.
Keep ’em coming Maurice.
Good morning Maurice
My wife and I watched the dvds last night and we give them the thumbs up
I always thought this squirting business was a myth ๐ it no longer is ๐
Good day
these are the realities of today, men have been diluted to the point we need 4 of them to satisfy our emotional, financial and social needs
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