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Dear Maurice,

I am 24 years old. I do not have much experience with men but I have been told that I am bootilicious and curvy. Recently a man that I had only met a week ago and only had dinner with him once told me he would love it if I talked dirty to him during sex. He said he would especially love it if I called him daddy. I was taken back by his request, not because he wanted me to talk dirty because I’m shy and it might be awkward at first to do it. However the thing that shocked me was him wanting me to call him daddy during sex. I know a lot of people call their lovers daddy in the bedroom but for me I automatically think of a father figure and the last thing I want to think about when I’m romping in the sheets is my dad. I’m I over thinking this request?

Maurice replies,

Yes, you are. There are plenty of people around the World who use ‘who’s your daddy’ in bed, for many its a turn on however there are women who find it a turn off. Dirt talk is just a way to trigger certain feelings that enhance sex. Nothing to be shy or shocked about.

She replies,

Thanks Maurice. I believe that in order to keep a man interested you must do what he wants you to do in bed. You have to be the girlfriend, the wife and mistress all in one. Can calling your lover ‘daddy’ refer to his reproductive nature, like you’re saying you could see him as a father to your children?

Maurice replies,

Not at all. And if you intend to keep this man interested in you, considering you only just met him, you should stay clear from mentioning anything linked to baby making. And I hope you are playing safe between the sheets with this man.

She replies,

Yes I am. He said he wanted to have my baby while he was cumming. He then kissed me passionately and held me till morning.

Maurice replies,

It is a feel good statement, as a man cums he is filled with an incredible urge to turn into Clark Kent, at that point he will say anything that gives him a sense of power. “Honey your sweat smells of tulips” is not sexy and that is why statements made by a man during sex usually conflict with the aftermath reality of a woman.

“I want to have your baby” is in most cases a mental power trip, a statement that defines manhood at that short lived moment. Unfortunately women tend to mentally record the whole sex session and play back the minutes to men.

She replies,

Lol tulips, I now get it.

I have read your article on ‘how to make her squirt’ and all I can say is wow wow wow. I tried it on myself several times and failed to squirt but I ‘came’. I am afraid to ask this man to make me squirt because he may ask me how I know about squirting.

Maurice replies,

You have 2 options. Refer him to the article or print it out for him to read. Let him empower himself with the information so that he can feel part of the process that hopefully makes you squirt in the near future.