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One of my male readers after reading my article ‘erotic sex for couples’ has requested me to write about the basics of arousing a woman. So here goes….

First lets assume the woman finds you ‘the man’ sexually attractive and that she is in the right mood or you have your ways of inducing the mood. Otherwise everything I am about to write will not work.

It does not always apply to every sexual encounter but it is highly recommended that ALL men take their time to ‘warm up’ the woman whether you think she is horny or not. Her vagina will not mutate into anything undesirable so take your time, flirt with her, seduce her and let the art of foreplay be second nature. Just like when you are about to embark on a long journey you check your car tyres for pressure, you check your engine oil and you also wash your car.

Well, the same applies with a woman. She is your long journey. You need to wash her down with seduction,  you need to oil her body and as you touch her your hands will slowly increase her temperature (unless you’re making out in Limuru or in the North Pole, good luck with that), and feel good chemicals will rush through her and sexual pressure will intensify.

Refrain your manly self from her vagina, slowly use your lips to awaken her arousal zones. Which are, her inner thigh, her neck, take your tongue to her upper back and follow the spine all the way to her butt then make your way back up. Listen to her moans they will set you on the right course.  When you turn her round lick 1 or 2 inches away from her nipple, you are now teasing her, then move to the next nipple before it starts to feel lonely. Now go south, again lick, kiss and suck her vagina’s out rim (her labia majora).

Lets assume her vagina is a City, it is your duty to form a circular by-pass around her vagina where your lips will do most of the ‘talking’. At this point with her so aroused she may pull you towards her ‘city’ but it is not time yet, there is much to do before you visit her secret garden.

Depending on how liberal you are, you can stimulate her clitoris with your finger (and be gentle, you are not preparing dough) or you can lick her. Listen and watch her reaction as you gently stroke her clitoris this will greatly aid you to maintain her arousal.

After you have indulged in the art of foreplay there will come a time when she will let you know that she is ready to embrace your girth. Again, its not a race to her ‘egg’, take your time. When you find the right momentum stick with it unless she requests otherwise. Sudden changes in sexual motion can set you back to point ‘A’ which means she may lose her arousal and interest.

That said and done it is VERY IMPORTANT that you keep a woman focused. Her mind should never be distracted, you should always make a woman feel sexy. Some women are insecure about their body and might be wondering what you think. Let her know that your erection can only be stimulated by a pleasing visual after all as men we are visual beings. Compliment her bodily attributes that arouse you and as you do that taste her skin, smell her neck (hopefully her designer perfume/soap won’t suffocate you).

Because I am directing this article to men PLEASE ‘guys’ be true with the words you whisper into her ear as you seduce her. Let the words be what you feel ‘as a sexual beast’ not what you think a woman wants to hear. So DO NOT tell her the following; she smells like tulips when you have no idea how a tulip smells like, her skin feels like silk WHAT!, her vagina smells like lavender (which man likes a lavender scented vagina) and when you look into her eyes you can see a universe of love…. REALLY! This is no time for a crash course in astronomy. Next you’ll be telling her when she farts you can see comets flying out of her ass.

Be real…. tell her what arouses you naturally. As you pass your hand across her body whisper about her ass, her breasts, her curvy hips, her erotic look (hoping you have gotten her to that level), about how she can please you as well. Remember your main goal is to arouse her to the point that she can not only physically but mentally induce an orgasm. Your satisfaction should stem from her satisfaction. Then and only then will you earn points.

Take the information above and be creative. She will appreciate the extra mile of effort.

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