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Dear Maurice,

I need to make sense of things in my life. My wife has really let me down. For the last 2 weeks it has been difficult for me to pretend that all is well in our home when I know the truth.

Maurice asks,

What is happening?

He replies,

My life has turned into a movie story. I met my wife 3 years ago and we have been married for 14 months. We haven’t even begun starting a family then I discover she is cheating on me or should I say she has been cheating on me for a while.

Maurice replies,

Start from the beginning.

He replies,

Well, 3 years ago my boy introduced me to my wife and before we knew it we were dating and later during our courtship I proposed to her. She accepted and we got married. Little did I know that she was involved with my boy.

Maurice asks,

You mean your boy who introduced you to her?

He replies,

Yes that back stabber. They have been together way before I met her.

Maurice asks,

So why did your boy let her get involved with you if he still wanted her?

He replies,

According to him it was just sex and they stopped sleeping together about a week before our wedding. Apparently they felt that it would not be right for them to continue their affair after the wedding, how noble of them ahh!

Maurice asks,

Hold on, so it was your boy who confessed to you face to face?

He replies,

Yes he did. It was hard to stay calm but somehow I did. He told me it was time I knew that I married a slut. He alleges they last fucked a month ago.  He also disclosed that my wife had done her threesome rounds with 2 other mutual male friends. I could not believe what I was hearing. He showed me a series of text messages she had sent him during our wedding night and many during our honeymoon.

She described me as ‘husband material’ and that she married me for that one reason. She also highlighted how better the sex was with my boy compared to me. This news has crashed me beyond but funny enough I don’t want her to know that I know about her cheating ways.

Maurice asks,

What do you want and why did your boy sleep with her again?

He replies,

It is going to sound crazy but for my boy this was payback for sleeping with his girl in campus. Plus he said she was gagging for dick so he obliged. He told me that he did not expect me to get so serious to the point of marriage. When I decided to marry her he stood by and watched because he believes I would have dismissed any objections at that time. I am in-love with my wife and yes I know it sounds weird and desperate but I can’t help loving her despite what she has done to me.

Maurice replies,

Are you kidding me? I am not one to judge normally but this marriage is as good as over. She may never know of your findings but how will you as a man be able to fully function in a marriage where you know your wife prefers to play musical beds. This is one of those times when I must tell you that as much as you may believe your marriage will work out, it won’t.

From one man to another. How is your manhood feeling right about now and can you really live knowing that your wife has been shared among your friends?

He replies,

I will have to try. I can learn to live with it.

Maurice replies,

Wake up and smell the coffee not her vagina. This is not community service you are performing. Things just don’t work out by themselves and for sure when you need to rise to the occasion you won’t be able to perform in bed further killing the man within you, and for what. She will most likely fall into another man’s bed once she realises that you cannot gain an erection for her and are always moody around her. I hope you are not in the notion that you are the bigger and better man for staying with her, because you are not.

He replies,

She will change with time.

Maurice replies,

As much as I doubt it, she may change but ‘wait a minute’. Your wife is not even aware that you know that she is adulterous. How then can she change? My dear sir the potency of love has a way of clouding basic logic and as hard as it is to let go you will have to. Right now you are treading in murky waters and you will lose your way if you don’t accept what is before your very own eyes.

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Saturday, April 27th, another session at the Coast. The ladies were so good to me last month I look forward to returning. Mombasa here I come again.

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