I have contemplated whether to seek your advise or not and finally I decided I need to swallow my pride and just ask you some rather personal questions regarding my current sex life. I have been going out with this girl for 7 months. I am totally in-love with her. I have never dated anyone as hot as her and I find our open conversation refreshing. However the problem I am experiencing was brought about stemming from our open policy to discuss anything. About 2 months ago we were discussing our past experiences with our ex’s and the topic of sex was part of our discussion. Needless to say she revealed details of her sexual encounters that kind of made me feel inadequate.
Maurice replies,
Let me guess, penis size was mentioned?
He replies,
Yes, she told me stories about several ex’s and one stood out.
Maurice replies,
Let me guess again, one of her ex’s stood out because he had a big one? I must ask, did you pry for details?
He replies,
Yes I did but I was not expecting to hear what she told me.
Maurice replies,
You do realise that you were playing with pandora’s box. When you pry for information you must be ready to digest what you find out. I know you were hoping to hear that her sex life was not that interesting till she met you however that is the hope of many men, that hope can be futile, and the question begs why in hell would you want to know about other men’s penises?
Fair enough, its a great feeling to be told that your penis is the best she has ever had but we both know the topic of size is very ego sensitive so why did you go there knowing the consequences could lower your confidence and sexual libido?
He replies,
It was after sex and we were both in high spirits and the pillow talk just took the wrong conversation route.
Maurice replies,
My good man, I hear you, I know what you were seeking to hear from her but let’s be real, who in his right mind will strike a conversation about other penises especially after sex. I’m sure there’s a part of you as you were having your pillow talk that was just screaming out “this might back fire on me”. And surely it did. If I may ask, what did she say that really affected you?
He replies,
She told me that her ex could make her cum within minutes because he had a long thick dick. But she also said compared to me he could not have sex for long. Even though that was somewhat comforting it did not help.
Maurice replies,
Well, how could it help when all your mind was fixated on was the mention of a ‘long thick dick’ that statement in itself can bruise a lot of male egos even if she affirms that your sexual endurance is much higher. In short, men just hate to hear words that confirm a big penis that is not ours. How badly has this affected your sex life?
He replies,
I am a bit conscious of my manhood right now. I know I shouldn’t be but I can’t stop thinking about what she said.
Maurice asks,
Before your discussion your penis was adequate ‘right’, unless you felt you did not satisfy her prior?
He replies,
Yes it was, our sex was awesome, her feedback is encouraging and I do make her orgasm which as a man is the pivotal goal.
Maurice replies,
Then you need to snap out of it and stop thinking about another man’s penis, and stop thinking about yours being smaller because what you will gradually do, is lower your desire for sex till you won’t be able to gain an erection.
By the way how old are you both?
He replies,
I am 32 and she is 26.
Maurice replies,
Take a deep breathe and let go of that negative voice in your head, drown it. You know that you satisfy your woman, after all you make her orgasm (give yourself some bonga points for that) so don’t let mental images of insecurity flood your mind. Concentrate on what you can achieve with her in bed and if anything obsess more over new ways of exploring her body, learning her body, ask her to show you where her arousal zones are, discover new ways of making her orgasm and concentrate on that and that alone. The aim is to psychological intensify your sexual ego, your sexual drive to satisfy her beyond her wildest dreams, trust me, it can be done, the question is, what is your priority? Make it the right one.
Maurice, that photo mmmmh
I have a 5.6 inch which is not that much but my girth is more than my length so I have a problem fitting into condoms I guess I am not badly off.
Girth does it for me, when he has a long one he doesn’t use it all
So girth it is ๐
I like that.
Every dude has his advantages and disadvantages….you may think you are not blessed in size but you do satisfy her with an orgasm and going on for longer which a lot of women are wishing they had. Snap out of the size thing…I think it is more about the way you use it and not necessarily the size.
Maurice, that image used……..damn!!!!!
I wouldn’t mind the one in the photo and that position no words
As for this dude, he has complex issues
Why are couples discussing such topics, I would hate to hear about another woman’s private parts from my man, I would kill him.
that photo has made me horny
Dude has issues,
and Maurice, that picture, how do I continue to work, I’m wet
Maurice, stop making people’s wives horny, I too can not work after that image.
My hubby must work on me tonight
I have read your work for awhile and I love your attention to detail when it comes to tending to a woman sexually , its quite the turn on
Thanks Anita. I do try.
loooool…….the dude should stop being insecure ..now thats a turn off
No wonder men are feeling threatened, the guy in the photo has a nuclear rod
heheheh joyce i just cant help it lol…
i agree with Abuja” I think it is more about the way you use it and not necessarily the size.” the ultimate goal here is orgasm….
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Nice one!
my husband has the smallest penis in all the men I’ve met but what he does to me is heavenly. no one gives me an orgasm like he does. some of my previous guys had big dicks but did nothing. surely size doesn’t matter
My hubby has this bent dick..makes me cum in minutes..Just 6 inches though..so DD i concur
love the photo
Men and their ego…..
It is the centre that matters not the radius. A monkey is not defined by the length of his tail and the sweetness of sugar is not in its colour.