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Does anyone really know, why I ask this is because if you wikipedia ‘great sex’ you don’ t get profile of a certain person or character that gives great sex. After all one woman’s experience of what she perceives as great sex may be normal sex for another and the same for men. The variables of having enjoyable or mind blowing sex varies per person. What I advise is that both gender stop having high expectation of good sex, why? Because enjoyable sex is not achieved through premeditated expectations or through blue tooth. When was the last time you were blue tooth-ed to orgasm!

Sex is not a ‘plug and play’ sequence where intercourse along will produce mind blowing results. Sex is a series of pleasurable sensations that can be induced by the senses of touch, sound and vigor that your partner responds to.

Apart from the penis, the tongue and fingers can do wonders only if you communicate. This goes out to the men, just because you have a penis the size of a nuclear rod it doesn’t mean you are going to pleasure a woman more than a guy with a 4″ penis. I know people say it’s how you work it but beyond that, a man must be willing to learn a woman’s body over time and gradually you will know most of her pressure points, the parts of her body that make her eyes roll or gasp for air if you get my drift. This will in turn reduce the complaints from women that men are selfish ‘because we are not all selfish’, for some men, though few, they gain their ultimate high by witnessing the pleasure they give to a woman, that is that manly feeling that fuels their egos. Not every man will perform the same as the next man so let’s not kid ourselves however when it comes to satisfying a woman; again to the men, take time to follow instructions, those instructions will lead to the unknown which may make you the ‘stud’ of that night, what more do you want to uplift that sexual ego. If your woman wants you to lick her clit for 30 minutes to one hour don’t get lazy, take the challenge and enjoy the motions, you will certainly learn what she likes and once you have that knowledge you will feel awesome to see her orgasm whether through penetration or not.

For both men and women, start to enjoy the journey that sex provides and explore each other, even history tells of stories and tales of those who dared to explore. If you don’t venture beyond the norm than you will undoubtedly not enjoy sex for a long period.

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A very curious girl in-boxed me and asked…. how is it that a man can claim to have ‘dated’ or should we say had flings with over 1,000 women in his life time and the question was…. is this possible? ….well its simple….

Take a guy who is now 30 years old, if he started seeing girls at 15 years… well that’s 15 years of experience, let’s now say he had flings with an average of 10 girls a month for 15 years… the math is simple 15 years x 12 months x 10 girls…… work it out, so  ‘no’ he is not bragging it’s so ‘do-able it hurts’.

The unfortunate thing is that this kind of guy is considered as the player type ‘why because he has had a string of girls that ‘exceed’ the limit of morality, commitment, society’s rules. Who sets these guide lines? Who follows them to the ‘T’?

It’s like the Mututho Law!!! Idiotic…. Who are we kidding, majority who will judge this guy unfairly will be those women who perhaps recall a time they were played so they categories this guy as the same breed.

Before you jump into conclusions and try and analyse how he managed to ‘date’ all these girls let me state before you do that ‘they were not commercial girls’. He met them in clubs, bars;  social arenas offer a mix of characters, there are those girls who are game for anything and there are those hoping to meet ‘Mr Right’.

This guy’s approach or strategy is simple and not time wasting. When he visits a social place he plays the numbers game, hopping from one girl to the next over the hours spent at this social place. The beauty of it is that with every flirt, with every hint of his intentions to ‘bed’ someone that night he then leaves the choice to the girls he has shared a chat with. So what do we have here, we have multiple girls who have all encountered this guy, all with a lingering thought of whatever flirty comment he implanted in their mind in the eventuality that one girl will be curious enough to want to know more about this ‘odd’ elusive guy. She will want to unveil the mystery behind this guy. There you have it, she has taken the bait, she’s hooked and he reels her in. Curiosity always killed the cat if you get my drift!

Now that he has a sure ‘shag’ for the night and he has from the beginning made it very clear that he only seeks a no strings attached affair and the girl is game its a mutual consent with no deception tactics involved.

It gets interesting though because during that evening he has at least chatted up 5 girls or more, numbers were probably exchanged whether they lead anywhere is anyone’s guess. However he has create an opportunity for curiosity to develop with each girl he spoke to meaning a marinating period has been achieved and in many cases a few of those who declined his offer on the night will one day say “what the heck at least the dude had balls to approach me and imply he wants to do me”, and by that time one of the social reasons that makes this girl call the guy is because her usual subtle approach guy (the guy who is always so sweet at first while courting) has disappointed her for far too many times so she tries something different knowing very well it could be the best thing or the worst mistake. So she gambles.

If we go back to the core reason for this article you will find that if this guy socialises just 2 weekends per month, Friday and Saturday, that’s 20 girls per month, and these are girls he meets in social places. I have not listed the ones he meets at his local kiosk for morning bread, local supermarket, friend’s place maybe a house party, family functions, weddings he may attend. Can you see how the odd just get better for him.

I will state this for a fact considering this guy does not believe in deception tactics to bed women. He is upfront with his intentions ‘AT ALL TIMES’ with women and he leaves it to the women to decide. This clearly shows that the day this guy decides his days of multiple women are done, the woman he decides to exclusively date or marry you can be assured that his commitment level will hold far more weight and truth then the usual sweet guy approach which is most of the time full of ‘sweet nothings’ that only lead to a hurting woman once he gets what he wants. The ‘sweet nothings guy’ is the player not the guy who has been with 1,000+ women by the time he’s 30. Judge him or not, at least he has the balls to spell out his intentions instead of feeding women with false hope.

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These days the pressures of sexual life are so immense that men have resorted to penis enhancement products ‘hoping’ to perform better.  Many men who engage in penis enlargement programs have become so obsessed with adding extra inches that they tend to forget just how important the girth of the penis is, it is extremely important in my opinion. There are exercises that men can perform at least twice a week to keep their penis healthy.

A large number of men that want to improve this part of their anatomy have turned to penis pump, penis enlargement exercise programs, male enhancement pills, and in some cases even surgical procedure. All in the name of pleasing women and becoming the Kings in the bedroom, even after achieving a few inches many still fail to satisfy women for one reason or another. It is also important to note that some of these products have side effects that may lead to penal problems. However there are those that have positive results but these results take a minimum of up to 9 months or more for your partner to actually feel a difference once she is penetrated.

These men who indulge in penis enlargement tend to think that the length of their penis is far more important than its girth (thickness) but what they fail to realise is that it takes a mixture of personal skill and interest in learning a woman’s body to fully satisfy her. A “healthy penis” is one that has both adequate length and girth. You’re probably wondering why the girth of a man’s penis is so important when it comes to satisfying a woman’s sexual needs.

There are two main pleasure zones of a woman stimulated by penis intercourse; one is located at entrance of the vagina and the other about 2 to 3 inches in the vagina on the top end where you find the G-Spot. These vagina areas are very sensitive and rich in nerve endings that can induce an orgasm or squirting. A man with a long thin penis simply goes in and out during intercourse and fails to fully stimulate the areas that provide a woman with the sensations of pleasure. However, men with thick penises expand the vaginal entry tissue and stimulate a larger number of nerve endings.

The clitoris is the central point of sexual pleasure for many women. It has one purpose and one purpose only and that is to provide a woman with pleasure during the act of sex, this can be through penetration, licking or sucking. A thin penis most likely won’t rub up against the clitoris and bring out those moans of sexual pleasure that men love to hear. Don’t worry all hope is not lost for thin penis barriers, there are certain sexual positions that make it possible to brush up against the clitoris during sex but it requires some skill and effort on the man’s part.

All in all the above only applies to women who react to intercourse and can easily gain pleasure in form of a orgasm or squirting if the penis is used to push the right buttons. It also does not mean that a short penis cannot satisfy a woman, that’s a myth. Many studies show that girth stimulates the vagina walls in different ways depending on the sensitivity of the woman’s vagina. A man with a lot of girth, compared to length, will most likely induce sensations by his penis spreading the vagina walls and the ‘in and out’ thrusting will create friction that will excite the woman increasing the possibility of satisfaction.

However it is important to note that women are different, with a variety of pleasure zones, you may enhance yourself and not deliver after all that effort and money, it’s easier to communicate and find out what ‘really’ gets her ticking!

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When it comes to bedroom matters or should I say sex humanity has over centuries evolved and a variety of desires have been derived from the need to explore new sensations and thrills. I believe they call it ‘eating the forbidden fruit’ but I thought as kids we were all told how fruits are good for our health so I’m sure by adulthood we may have an addiction to sweet fruit in which ever form they come!

The desires I speak are better defined as fetishes. A fetish is a personal liking for a certain sexual act or attribute. In many cases fetishes do not require intercourse as we know it. I know some men may ask ‘no intercourse’ then what’s the point? Well let me tell you that men take their manhood tool too seriously and should try out other forms of sexual acts that may achieve orgasmic results that conventional sex cannot.

Let’s look at a few fetishes; A couple that love to have sex either being watched or putting themselves in a situation where they could be seen by a snoopy neighbour. Having sex at the window over looking other homes or at a balcony, for many people this is a major turn on and a rush of sensations stimulated mentally or visually create a very electric sexual session. The phrase ‘back seat of my jeep’ was not a sales pitch for a car dealership it implies and induces mentally visions of having sex on the back seat of a car.

Another fetish is where you have a couple who love to play with food, you name it they have tried it. They get creative with chocolate, ice cream, whipped cream and strawberries, cake with loads of cream to smear on parts of their bodies that are most sensitive. This form of play is also very vital when you want to set the mood, get the burners warming up and get the blood rushing in all the right places especially for men. It’s great and exciting 4-play and once the heat is right the sexual session can be overwhelming and satisfying for both parties.

The sense of touch in the right places can stimulate a ‘high’ achieving an awesome turn-on, it is advisable to always ask your partner where they love to be touched or licked and how they like it. Once you understand your partner’s most sensitive parts of the body then you can arouse sensations that will make them want to ride the ultimate rollercoaster if you get my drift!

Fetishes are not only common with couples. Individuals who make it a point to self arouse are actually doing themselves a big favour by learning and experiencing their most erotic pleasures in the comfort of their own company. This over a period of time links their mental receptors with the areas they touch (play with) to elevate their sexual self awareness. When they have a partner they know exactly what does it for them, what takes them to cloud nine and it decreases and eventually eliminates any inhibition they may have. So what I am saying is practise does make perfect in this scenario.

When it comes to attributes in regards to fetishes especially with men you will find men who love feet, boobs, ass or a full size woman with love handles. These may seem like the ordinary likes of any man but that would be entirely wrong. Men look for certain attributes, even though they may dabble with women who don’t have those unique attributes, they eventually go for what they like most in a woman.

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