Hey Maurice. I am desperate for your expert advice. Please save me. I have known my so called boyfriend for about 8 years now. Though we started dating early this year. Our relationship is long distance, he works in the Middle East. He is an amazing man and lover and I fell for him
completely. I love this man to the moon and back. He says he loves me too. I could say he shows it but then again. I am not sure exactly how to tell if a man is genuinely in love. When he is on holiday here and we spent almost every minute together. Its thrilling to be with him. The last time he was around after he went back we continued our routine of texting, calling and video chatting and everything was okay. The problem is, he calls me then I hear from him many hours later. Sometimes he says he was on over time at work, other times his phone was on silent and was not aware or he was sleeping. The latest excuse was in was out shopping the whole day. I started to suspect him because numerous times he didn’t call which was odd because he always calls me after his shift.
One day he didn’t call. The next morning, he still didn’t call or text. We spoke later that day and he didn’t offer an explanation. I got so upset that I asked him for a break to rethink our entire relationship. He agreed. A few days later, I texted him and told him that we are officially done. Again, he agreed without hesitation. At that point his message was loud and clear. If I meant anything to him, he would have fought for me. He wouldn’t have let me go so easily. Now, I miss him so much. I am still in love with him. But on the other hand, I don’t want to be in a relationship where I feel taken for granted. A part of me feels like I made the right call and that I should just wait for a man who can’t stand the thought of not being with me. Not one who finds it very easy to end our relationship. So, my questions are, do you think I over reacted? Do you think am insane to think that if he truly loved me he would have fought for me? Seeing that I still love this man, is there a way to salvage our relationship? If there is, what should I do?
Maurice replies,
I need to know the following;
How long has he lived in the Middle East?
How did your friendship start?
At what point did you start courting each other to end up dating? Was it online courting!
Did you declare your dating status before he came to Kenya or while he was here?
When was your first sexual engagement with him?
She replies,
He has lived in the Middle East for about 3 years. Our friendship began through a friend’s party in 2007. As friends we even traveled on holidays and had a lot of fun. We started courting in December when he was here for Christmas. We officially declared our dating status in March when he had already gone back. Our first sexual engagement was when he was here this year. Then we picked things up again when he was here briefly in July. Hope that helps.
Maurice replies,
I wish men were more open with their intent instead of playing a part they cannot sustain. We love differently and too often do men channel information you want to hear to keep you in your love bubble….in my opinion with the fact that love for men comes in variety of categories, I believe your man embarked on a journey which was created by the lust and fun element….sharing of sweet words, flirting, phone sex (if any) then reality checked in when it hit him that his own words were fighting him.
For a man to agree so quickly it means he loved the euphoric nature of your long distance relationship and is most likely dating someone else or merely playing the field.
Many women approach me who are in the same scenario. Some diaspora men will keep it up for years only for the women in Kenya to one day find out he has another woman through Facebook, or the latest one, where he broke the relationship by posting a family photo on his whatsapp profile after getting engaged to the woman and giving her false hope.
Men will say anything or play a role to suit their ‘need’. When the need expires they rarely tell you but fade away slowly hoping you end it. If they can’t keep up the act they give up at a moments notice.
She replies,
So, in short you are saying I made the right choice? I feel like I did though I miss him and at the same time I am a bit angry.
Maurice replies,
Yes. You did make the right choice.
She replies,
Thank you. That means a lot. Assuming he starts talking to me again, how should I handle it?
Maurice replies,
Men like him rely on your undying love. Don’t fall for his come back charm. He is counting on it if he re-strategies and sells you an emotional story. He may decide to come clean with the ‘I thought I loved her’ story ‘but I really love you not her’ lines….don’t be his convenient fuck friend. It will hurt but you deserve a man who is honest enough to tell you what he really wants. Don’t look for love in a man look for blunt honesty….that man usually is there to stay or as women put it he is there for keeps.
She replies,
Thank you so much Maurice. I chose to dump him cause I know I deserve better despite being madly in love.So, if he comes back, I won’t have a problem resisting him. Thanks again, you’ve been most helpful.
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Good one Matheka. Solid advise.
Whaaaaat! Girl get a grip, the nigga is playing you and you’re still in love. When the area code changes you let him go.
Maurice most men will never be up front. We are too focused on playing a role to please the woman and when things get heavy we bail. As for me I am as blunt as they come. Am the are we fucking or not kind of guy.
I feel for her though us women sometimes know a bad thing but persist to make it work yet the signs were there.
A good read Maurice
Maurice you are ace. The vimax worked like a charm. My boyfriend is now keeping up with me.
And that woman needs to get over him like yesterday.
Its never that serious, there are plenty of men right here. I hope she’s not crying for a man with low sex drive..just saying.
So enlightening. I was through this at some point.
“The problem is, he calls me then I hear from him many hours later.”
No. This is not a problem.
“One day he didn’t call. The next morning, he still didn’t call or text. We spoke later that day and he didn’t offer an explanation.”
That’s because there was no need to! (sigh!)
“I should just wait for a man who can’t stand the thought of not being with me.”
That’s unrealistic, childish and profoundly ridiculous.
“So, if he comes back, I won’t have a problem resisting him.”
Yeaaahhh….ok! Of course you will…
I agree, they should both be clear about what the arrangement is however all is impertinent and irrelevant.
“It will hurt but you deserve a man who is honest enough to tell you what he really wants.”
This….