I am 28 and my husband is 29. I have been married for 2 years to the sweetest most loving man you can ever find but I think I have a problem.
Maurice asks,
What is your problem?
She replies,
I live a secret life and for the last 3 years I have wondered why my husband has not noticed or may be he has and just ignores it.
Maurice replies,
You need to expound on the problem.
She replies,
Since I was 18 I have always had a taste for older men who cannot resit me, men much older than my husband, and for obvious reasons. Mainly because they can provide financial assistance and security. I graduated and I have a great job that pays well but I have also gained a lot from men over the years. I own property worth 74 million; two apartments and one town house but my husband only knows of one apartment which he thinks I bought as my own investment. He is the first man I have ever cared for, I can say I have loved men in my past but when I really think about it I loved what they could offer me.
Maurice asks,
So how can I help, do you need to open up to your husband and confess?
She replies,
I highly doubt he would forgive me so am not sure if that is an option. My issue is that my husband travels a lot and during his travel I find myself involved with my old circle of friends or should I call them ex boyfriends. They still show me attention and its like I am addicted to their lure. Their capacity to provide material wealth and assets turns me on and it has had me hooked for years.
Maurice asks,
Is it just the thrill of being pampered or are you sexually involved?
She replies,
Excluding my husband there are two other men in my life. I have been unable to break away from their hold and I can not understand why because I am not lacking at home. I am sexually active with them and it only feels wrong after the act but still after years of telling myself its not worth it I find myself caught in their web more often than not. Did I mention they are both married.
Maurice replies,
So let me get the facts right, there is nothing wrong with your husband, its you and your addiction for the thrills the other men give you?
She replies,
Correct.
Maurice asks,
If I may ask considering you have been living this other life for years even after marriage why is it a problem now, have the dynamics changed?
She replies,
With each passing year I feel more and more guilty because my husband deserves better. How do I break away?
This is my opinion of your scenario. You are not a loner. You hate the feeling of loneliness so when your husband travels your long term craving kicks in and that drives you to these men who are most likely receiving an extra buzz because you are married and still you run to them whenever the opportunity presents itself. When your husband is home do sneak away?
She replies,
No, only when he travels.
Maurice replies,
There you go. Your character does not allow boredom. Unfortunately instead of indulging in hobbies or socializing with positive influences you end up being led astray by your engraved social circle of bad influence. No amount of therapy alone will snap you away from your current trend. Only you can make that conscious choice if indeed you value your marriage. Cheap thrills would make sense if you had no obligations to anyone, but right now those thrills will cost you your marriage.
She replies,
Do I tell my husband about my other assets?
Maurice replies,
Well, considering you said he would not forgive you I would advice against it. Why open Pandora’s box if you are sure of the outcome. Actually telling him is not the problem, what you will face is a line of questioning because he will be curious about how and when you acquired your assets. Are you prepared to take on his curiosity and if yes will you risk telling him the truth, and if you lie about your assets you will create a snow ball of serial deception. The first step to a brighter future with your husband is accepting you have a problem which you have, the second step will be the path you choose to take.
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Wow! Yu are a shitty person lady! I hope your husband has skeletons too cz yu don’t deserve him! Yu will only reap what yu are sowing.hope yu are using protection with these other men. doubt it though
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