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Dear Maurice,

I attended one of your less sexual sessions and I must say your talk was very informative but I did not agree with you on one point.

Maurice asks,

What point is that?

She replies,

You implied that a date should not always lead to marriage, in my opinion you basically told the women looking to get married one day that men are more interested in the physical than a woman’s up bringing and character. Do not get me wrong I am not attacking you I am just concerned that, mind my French, women are out there spreading their legs without any guarantees.

Maurice replies,

Let us define men without all the additions of lifestyle traits that are picked up over the years. Men derive from a variety of social settings but what we all have one thing in common. We are sexual visual beings otherwise you might as well say that all men going out this weekend are looking for woman who likes playing golf, or are more interested in a woman’s intellect, I wonder what happens to that intellect when men are folding women in the back seats of their cars! I can just imagine the conversation “are you an advocate” why she asks, he replies “because your vagina is in contempt”, she replies “I feel your deposition inside me”.

Now, one thing I do know is that women have heard an array of lines from men who make men like me look bad, as if craving sexual exploration is a crime! The truth is ‘unfortunately’ many men will adopt a false character and say anything that appeals to a woman in the hope that her panty drops ‘eventually’. Men like me just say it as it is. No point beating around the bush when when she could be squirting in my mouth. Life is just too short for all this BS.

When was the last time you heard a man telling his boys “guys tonight I am looking for a hot woman so we can share cooking recipes as we get to know each other”, I think his pals would flee fearing to be infected with verbal diarrhea.

Sex is a pass time, I think soon it will be an Olympic sport, and I see Kenya in the forefront ‘gold, silver and bronze’. You can colour it and sugar coat it all you want but at the end of the day unless you are procreating to achieve pregnancy, sex is an avenue that can generate immense erotic pleasure if the application is done right. Sex is primal, it is not flowers in a vase. It is a mix of one’s desire and fueled lust to experience the motions, the journey and finally to climax.

There are no long term guarantees to where a date will take two people but what is clear especially in the man’s mind is that regardless of the number of dates or period taken, he hopes that something sexual will yield from all that coffee and chocolate sampling. If men told the truth they would opt to skip the ‘coffee session’ for a more stimulating one between the sheets.

My advise, take it or leave it, if you want to have sex, have it because you want to have fun, you want sensations running through your body. It is every woman’s right (it should be in the Constitution) to orgasm at least once every time she has sex otherwise what is the point of spreading your legs. Men are biologically programmed to ejaculate but women are not, so gents pull up your socks, assert effort and get her vagina gushing.

*Solid relationship are formed by mutual thinkers who are both aware of the path they have taken and have no unrealistic expectations but enjoy every moment together as if it were their last.