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Dear Maurice,

I am dating a married man and have been for the last 4 years. He is everything I have ever wanted in a man apart from the sad fact that he will never be mine exclusively, its a reality that hits me even time I wake up next to him. He provides for me but now I can not decide on something?

Maurice replies,

I am curious to know what your issue is?

She replies,

There’s this guy I have known for about 14 months and 2 months ago he asked me out on a date and I said yes. It was an awesome date and it went further than I had planned. I had sex with the guy and I loved every moment. I have never been a believer of sex titles but I can say whatever people call ‘making love’ is what that guy did to me and has done repeatedly. It doesn’t help that he has immense endurance and the first time we had sex he went on and on to the point I lost myself in a sphere of incredible pleasure. My married guy has never taken me to those heights of pleasure and I can’t dismiss the fact that this other guy is not married. He was honest enough to tell me that he has been mingling for the last 2 years after his breakup and that his ex left him for a man who had more money than him but once in awhile she returns just for sex.

Maurice replies,

So, let me get the drift of your story. After sleeping with this new guy if I may call him that, psychologically and physically things have drastically changed. You have had a new outlook of your life. You have found that guy who can potentially be yours exclusively and lucky for you he comes with the full satisfaction guaranteed package. But just to burst the bubble, let me guess, you are asking yourself, if you leave your married man will the new guy be able to financially deliver consistently. Considering his last woman left him for a bigger wallet.

My dear, life is not a straight line and sometimes life will present you with what you have always craved but the curve ball comes with certain limitations in your case financial security that you are used to may decline.

Are you in love with your married man and is your sexuality important to you or will cash take priority?

She replies,

After 4 years with a man you grow fond of him and you care deeply for him and you also get used to other small things you share but I can not say that I have ever been in love with him. I guess knowing he would never completely come home to me prevented those feelings from developing. My sex life has not be good but I sacrificed that part of my needs because at least he was providing in other areas. This other guy can be mine exclusively but I am afraid to take that leap.

Maurice replies,

My dear you can not tell me that you are planning to rely on the married man for the rest of your life. Assuming he decided to let you go in a heart beat, are you saying that you are not self reliant?

She replies,

You got me there. It is not that I can not pay my bills it is just the getting used to other perks that come with dating him.

Maurice replies,

With Mr new guy. Do you see anything else about him apart from the sex, does he have the potential to grow?

She replies,

I guess he does.

Maurice replies,

Then don’t be afraid to take a chance and start over. You do have a choice, you can dismiss the new guy and go back to status quo but something tells me you have already ponder over the idea of moving on and your greatest fear is that you can actually leave the married man. Leaving what you are used to is never easy but as the years pass on will there be any added value to your life if you don’t explore what is out there!

She replies,

Thanks Maurice I think I know what I need to do.

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