Dear Maurice,
I do not know where to start or finish all I know is that your intervention saved my marriage. It has been a long journey to get to where we are right now as you well know.
It was a task to get my husband to accept to meet you but I am glad that he did. Four sessions later we made break through when he opened up and told me why he decided that cheating was the easier option. I was shocked and hurt to hear the truth but it has set me free and I know how I played a part in his action even though it is not an excuse it is important as you said in the sessions to admit when you know you had a part in the negative effects of your relationship.
After realizing that I had turned into the auto pilot wife and discarded my man’s needs I have rejuvenated into the woman he wants. I have learned that being a wife and mother is very separate to being my man’s woman. I have gotten rid of my not so sexy t-shirts and outfits. I have changed my casual wear completely. I feel like a new woman.
I am ever so grateful that you told my husband at our third session that he had to reform or he should leave me so that he can pursue other women without emotionally hurting me. That really hit home for him, your statement was stun and direct and by then he knew you do not mince your words. He felt like that was the turning point, we were either going to progress or head for divorce. I am equally grateful that you were not soft on me and challenged my responsibilities to my man. You gave us a lot to think about. We had forgotten what it felt like to date, to share a joke about anything. We got caught up with everyday life until our marriage bond became unrecognizable.
I am happy to say that our marriage is back on the highway of love and our sex life thanks to you has been ‘you can fill in the blanks’. We have applied every position in your dvd and wooooow who knew sex could be so much fun but I am yet to squirt lol.
Anyway I just wanted to give you positive feedback because I know in your line of work you always witness the worst in people and as you told us when we first met you, you cannot save every relationship especially when only one player is willing and the other is not. You write about sex so candidly and that must help a lot couples who relate with the variety of articles on your blog.ย I follow your blog updates and you are during a commendable job highlighting the realities of relationship.
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To my readers,
I have always said that marriage is not difficult. It is the choices that people make that make marriage difficult.
One of the key elements to moving forward is accepting that you were wrong, even when your partner fails you it is equally important to establish whether or not you were part of the problem. It does not excuse your partner but it presents a platform to achieve some form of progress. Pointing fingers and reminding your partner how horrid they are has never and will never be a solution unless you have an odd argument fetish!
To resolve issues you must have an open mind and you must be willing to allow your partner to voice their side of the story.
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Session update:
To the ladies, this Saturday 9th November there is a session and you are welcome to attend. Please call the organiser on 0727544583 for more details.
Maurice….kudos bro!!! For real! Mending marriages with real talk.
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