Hi Maurice,
I have read your blog for a while now and I have questions to ask you. Some may sound weird but I guess you have heard it all. Just for your information I am 42, never married but I mingle with women a lot and I am very content with my successful life. What I seek is for you to shed light on my character through these questions. I guess I want a better understanding of the man I really am.
Until I was 16 I did not have interest in girls but by the age of 18 I had dated well over 15 girls both younger than me and older. My peers never had the same success rate so what was it about me?
Maurice replies,
The best way to answer that is to tell you that those are the signature signs of an alpha male in the context of male sexual dominance.
I am guessing that while other boys were discussing cars and football you were hatching a strategy on how to conquer your next victim and your approach was much more sophisticated then your average teenager.
He replies,
Very correct.
At the age of 21 it was clear that I was extremely sexually active. It puzzled me how others could only have a sex session for 5 minutes max when I could last for at least one hour or more depending on how much the girl excited me.
Maurice asks,
Did you ejaculate at all during that sex session?
He replies,
No, I would only ejaculate after she confirmed that she was satisfied and noticeably exhausted.
Maurice replies,
Let me guess, due to your endurance some women thought you did not enjoy the sex because you did not cum within their expected time?
He replies,
Yes, I have always found that odd.
Maurice replies,
Well, the truth is, a small percentage of men can perform for one hour without ejaculating so it is only logical that many women will assume that ejaculating within a certain time period like 2 minutes to 10 minutes is a sign of enjoying sex. The fact is a man can always make himself cum without a woman, so it is only practical that a woman’s satisfaction comes first during any sexual act unless you are engaging in Sadomasochism.
He replies,
So am I abnormal?
Maurice replies,
No you are not. You have a high libido with a heightened endurance hence why you can perform as you do.
He replies,
Why is it that I easily go off any woman who asks me “if sex is all I think about” when I am with them?
Maurice replies,
Lol. It is because those women do not understand that your best way of showing your affection if I may use that word is through your sexual ability.
He asks,
Why the lol?
Maurice replies,
Your statement rang a bell.
He replies,
I have always made it clear to any woman I get involved with that it is all about the fun element with no strings attached. They then make a decision to stick around or leave. Many tend to stay but after awhile they change script on me and totally ignore the basis of our relationship, why is this because I hate it when women flip the script when all was going well?
Maurice replies,
My good man I think we both know that women get emotionally attached at one point regardless of the stipulated relationship rules hence why ‘friends with benefits’ usually has an expiry period, more so when the woman’s feelings are upgraded from just loving the wrath of your penis.
All I can say is that I applaud your upfront boundaries which limit the chances of a woman stating that you deceived her. It is always wise to make sure everyone is on the same page before indulging.
He asks,
My last question. What is the normal average number of women a man of my age is said to have slept with in his lifetime?
Maurice replies,
I believe there is no actual number or societal expectation, it depends on the individual, why do you ask?
He replies,
I was working it out before I contacted you and I realised that for the last 26 years I have on average slept with 9 women a month. That is 2,808 women.
Maurice replies,
I am not surprised at all. That is normal for alphas. But I do hope you practice safe sex?
He replies,
Lucky for me late last year I was tested and I am safe. But then again I have always been careful with my personal code of no rubber no sex.
Everyday for the last 14 years I have taken herbal supplements to maintain my libido, and I train twice a week. At 42 I feel great physically and sexually.
So Maurice what kind of man do you think I am?
Maurice replies,
My first deduction is that you are very calculative in most things you do and when it comes to your sexual ability you will move mountains to maintain it.
You do not like complication or misunderstanding hence why you are very open to each woman you meet about your intentions which leaves her with a choice to make, to explore with you or not. That is wise.
The fact that you are not married does not tell me that you fear marriage but you fear the things within marriage that you may not have control over. For instance a woman married to you would have the benefit of guaranteed satisfaction. However you fear that after all that sexual effort she might one day start to take your dedication to her for granted.
In my book you are an alpha male breed that is very sexual, and with men in general being sexual beings you are of the extreme nature. It will take a certain woman with a high sex drive and with an open sexual mind to understand that you aim to please her and your way is primarily through sex. That is the only kind of woman that is compatible with you. It goes beyond just loving each other, she must have that craving for intense sexual activity for your relationship to last. I believe you already know that but needed confirmation. You are not alone. There are men around the World who have your characteristics and all they yearn for is that one woman who will not shed her skin once she says I do or bears a child.
Compatibility is key to every relationship, especially in the realm of sexuality. It is not always guaranteed that one will find or fall for a compatible mate and that is one major dilemma of relationship foundations in today’s World. People are not willing to settle for less and they shouldn’t.
He replies,
Thank you for your honest profiling.
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