mauricetherapy

Over the many years I have been asked about the safest way to have anal sex without having to hurt her. Well, the first thing you need is patience. A virgin ass is delicate, I am tempted to use the word ‘fragile’. It is not an easy task and remember it is supposed to be enjoyable to the one receiving. And do not worry, if you are nervous about anal sex you are completely normal.

Now let me take you down memory lane 16 years back and tell you how I handled my first ever attempt to de-virgin a girl’s ass. Yes I was young, a bit of a novice, but I had the general principles mentally engraved on my mind. I knew the first few sessions would consists of gentle, patient anal finger penetrations before my penis was ever going to receive a piece of the action!

It was vital for me to make sure the girl was relaxed and comfortable. One of the best ways to achieve that status is to have her empty her bowels ‘no do not over feed her’ that’s cruel, and give her a good rub down as she takes a shower or soaks in the tub. She felt clean and sexy after, that’s always a benefit. Depending on how freaky she can get it is beneficial for the girl to play with herself, to get herself in the mental mood, to get her juices flowing, to get herself warmed up and you ‘the man’ can play with her clit to help her get there a bit faster, but remember there’s no hurry, lets take our time and do this right.

So here we go. I recall we engaged in a lot of anal play which meant I lubed up my fingers and began to play with her anus entry point, trust me with all the nerve ends at that area, the pleasure even without penetration is intense and she actually had a rush of sensations and without realising it eventually she had a premature orgasm. She particularly enjoyed it more when a placed a 4 speed vibrator against her anus. The moans were intense and thrilling for novice me. Though it is not mandatory to use sex toys they are just an added bonus to the journey of pleasure. After anal play using my well lubricated fingers (latex cloves can be used) I embarked on my first ‘finger penetration’. It is very important to remember that once penetration has been reached ALL MOVEMENT MUST BE STOPPED, why? so that the girl can adjust to the newly introduced foreign anomaly and the sensations that follow. After about 2 minutes I began to wiggle my finger gently rubbing and touching her rectum walls. The sensation caused her to orgasm within minutes which was both surprising to me and her at the time. So our first and second sessions went ok and so did our third and that is the time when after getting used to 3 well lubricated fingers she asked for the real deal. Remember there’s nothing like too much lubrication. Lubrication is great, it limits friction and makes entry much easier. Once I gained entry, I knew that it was crucial for her to take control of the motions and I just stood still with my penis inside her and she started to move her body back and forth in the doggy position. I was not expecting what happened next and all I remember is hearing her say “it’s coming”, I was excited but at the same time I wondered ‘what was coming’…. you get my drift. Thankfully it was to be one of the most intense orgasms she had ever experienced, she then yelled don’t move and there again she ‘came’ in full control still moving back and forth at her pace. Its the first time that I felt like a organic dildo. I had an erection but was powerless, not in control but enjoying every moment ‘as you would’. This was to be one of my many learning curves of the art of patience and the art of reading a woman’s reactions, her body language, how she likes it, at what pace and at what point I should take control or not.

Many women who discover anal sex have testified to having the best orgasms and all due to nerve endings that are tapped during anal sex. While having intercourse penis girth all lubed up adds to the pleasure.

Recommended positions to begin with while using the fingers is in the missionary position with her legs suspended and spread as if giving birth.  Some women believe it or not prefer the guy sat on the bed with his back on the headrest and she in the girl on-top position. When the vagina and penis are lubricated women have managed to enjoy their first in the girl on-top position. They normally drench the shaft with lub then hold the shaft and slowly, very slowly slide it in like the slowest guided missile ever!

It is important to note that during your anal trial sessions you will also be enticed to have sex and forget about the anal session, that’s fine, everything takes time. Enjoy the journey, make her comfortable and she will thank you for every moment you have been patiently by her side.