Dear Maurice, (June 2012)
I have been married for 26 years. I have just turned 47 and my husband is 49, he will be 50 in August. We started dating in our teens till we eventually got married. Our sex life in our teens was mostly experimental and we were both novices sexually but we had fun with it. As we hit our mid 20’s my craving for sex slightly declined and that was an issue at the time but we made it work or rather I put effort to make sure my man would not seek it anywhere else.
At around 32 I began to enjoy and crave more sex with my husband and I guess I had learned more about my sexuality. That sexual connection hit a slump when my husband got to the 40’s mark of his life. I noticed that his desire to have sex kind of declined and when we would have it, it was short lived and that is our current bedroom dilemma.
Maurice replies,
Have you been for health check ups pertaining to bodily deficiencies that may hinder your sex life?
She replies,
Well, I can’t say that we have had any sex related check ups but just the normal health checks and they have shown that we are healthy. My husband had a cardio check up just last year and that was ok; no concerns regarding his heart. Just to add, we discussed viagra and though it gave him the expected boost the sexual duration was still short lived so he can not get me to climax. I don’t believe he is lazy, don’t get me wrong, I am just worried that my sexual crazing has tremendously increased and his is either stagnant or declining. It’s gotten so bad that I have started to desire random men for a while now, though it has all been a mental stimulus and I have stayed faithful I am worried about what the future may have in store. I’m sure you know what I mean.
Maurice replies,
Do not worry about your desires as long as you do not act on them you are human these feelings do manifest themselves when you body craves for something.
Personally I do not recommend viagra as a long term solution. Your husband needs his testosterone levels checked by a specialized general practitioner. You may even seek a second opinion; with medicine second opinions do carry some weight. It’s good to be sure before you make medical decisions.
She replies,
In your experience do you believe that there might be a positive outcome that will return my husband back to the man he was in the bedroom?
Maurice replies,
Yes over the years I have received positive reviews from men with similar problems. These men range from 25 to 60 years old. The most common symptoms are fatigue, low libido and erectile dysfunction. A lot of these problems stem from the foods we eat today.There are very few foods that are 100% pesticide and chemical free.
Though the herbal remedies do take time to come into effect but it’s worth the wait. As you consult with your practitioner do bring up the options of certain herbal medicines from Asian that increase the well being of men and the herbal pills also consist of compounds that assist in increasing and sustaining a man’s libido levels. One such herbal remedy is vigrx. In your husband’s case he would have to start a regime of 2 packs (16 capsules) per month for 3 to 4 months. Let me know what you decide I can supply the vigrx.
Very important:
1) Control his meal portions (especially in the evenings)
2) Plenty of water and citric drinks are recommended
3) Exercise for well being and fitness
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Dear Maurice, (October 2012)
I am writing to you with great news. Even though my husband was a bit skeptical about vigrx, I think it was his sexual ego and research that drove him to go onto the 3 month regime and I must say it has worked wonders for him. I begged him to write to you personally with details of his improved desire for sex but he was more comfortable delivering his appreciation for your help through me. And may I just say my husband and I loved your erotic sex for couples write up, we read it over and over though some content was more than we could chew, I am sure you understand.
Thank you so much.
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Maurice it is good that you touch on topics that most find taboo in our African society yet they define many of our relationships.
I did my research on herbal remedies after my husband told me of his inability to perform, I needed to know why thinking it was me and I am glad you know your stuff, not implying you don’t but self research is important before you get into anything.
Keep it up.
I will email you for more details. I think I will need your help.
I am 23 and I have a serious case of premature ejaculation I know my mama just fakes it for my sake and its making my ability to gain an erection impossible knowing that I can not satisfy my girlfriend. I hope this vigrx is the answer.
eat plenty of ug and nyama and lots of tusker
Maurice ignore Peter. As I had mention in a previous blog maxman has been working for me and vigrx is equally as effective. Btw it was my wife who researched into erectile problems and found a remedy for me.