mauricetherapy

Hi Maurice,

My issue is a small one never the less it’s still an issue in my book. I am 22 and my 3 year boyfriend does not seem to have enough sex from me?

Maurice asks,

When you say 3 year boyfriend, I’m hoping he’s not 3 years old!

She replies,

Maurice you know what I mean don’t be silly. Anyway, is it normal for a guy to want to have sex 7 days a week and it’s been 3 years now I thought he would get tired after a few months but it’s getting worse if you ask me. He gets over excited to see me and starts to hint for some. I’m not complaining but it is tiring  to accommodate him at times. He is also pretty chunky downstairs so we always have to use lubrication.

Maurice replies,

First, this is not an issue, if I compare you with other women you are blessed to have a man who yearns for you to that magnitude and duration. What you need to do is just remind him that you are human and that you get tired. Once in a while he should let you rest your vagina before he either creates vaginal injuries or gradually puts you off your sex life. That will not be healthy for your relationship. Just remember it’s not what you say but how you say it, make it very clear to him that you yearn for him just as much but his stamina, libido and craving is much higher than yours. That should affirm to him that you still find him a stud in bed hence making him understand that you are not saying ‘no’ to sex but just need a breather whenever you feel exhausted or just not in the mood.

Apart from that is there anything else on your mind?

She replies,

Well, he has stopped taking me out as much as he used to, we still go out but unlike our every weekend outings we only go out like once a month. He prefers to stay home watch a movies and have plenty of marathon sex till neither of us can move.

Maurice asks,

How old is your boyfriend?

She replies,

He is 34, and before you ask, he is not married, I was lucky to find him after he had broken off his last relationship over lack of sex. I thought I was sexually active of which I am but not to his level.

Maurice replies,

So you are compatible sexually which is a bonus ‘trust me’, but he is a bit of a bull in bed always charging for your body. My dear to be honest I can’t fault him because he is performing unlike many who are not. In regards to your going out, it’s not surprising that you find his staying indoors a bit much you are still his junior by a good 12 years so you will find that your social interests will differ at times. Try and meet half way, instead of the 4 weekends that you were used to try agreeing to 2 weekends per month and take it from there. Also be careful not to calendar your social life otherwise it will remove the unknown thrill from the act of going out and it will become predictable.