mauricetherapy

Dear Maurice,

I hope this message finds you in good health. I am going through a lot at the moment and I can’t explain why that is. I am 16 but I feel much older. I have grown up with people older than me so I think my life is on some sort of speed dial if you get what I mean. I have dated boys my age since I was 14 and I find them immature and boring. I like guys who are men not boys. I have been told by many older guys that I look older than my age and they compliment my body. I developed early so I have the full package that men like and I love the attention. Is that common with girls my age?

Maurice replies,

Well it is common for girls your age to be attracted to older boys or men however it’s not wise to act on your hormonal calling to explore with older men. I am eager to know where this dialogue is going? Oh, thank you for your concern regarding my health, I don’t recall anyone else bothering to ask. So whats going in your teen life?

She replies,

Maurice I may be 16 but I know when a man is trying to remind me that I am still a young naive girl. Stand corrected I am not naive so stop talking to me as if I am a child, it offends me.

Maurice’s replies,

I do apologise young woman, is that better.

She replies,

lol, you are a piece of work but I still need your help. I broke my virginity at 14 with a 28 year old guy.

Maurice’s comments,

You did what at what age? Do you realise that was statutory rape? Are your parents aware of your current social life? I sense a disconnect between you and them otherwise they would monitor your day to day activities.

She replies,

I don’t need a lecture and look who’s being naive now? It was consensual, I knew what I was doing despite what people think. Many of my friends in school started to have sex around the same age. I did not expect you of all people considering what you write about and your exposure to be so narrow minded. And I do not want to talk about my parents, all I am saying is mum died and Dad is too busy to notice me. Are you willing to be open minded and hear me out or should I leave it there?

Maurice’s says,

I’m all ears, go ahead.

She replies,

Good. Anyway since my first time which I must say was wack compared to the sex I am having now, I am constantly in need of sex. I think I am addicted or something and I get bored of guys very fast especially those who can’t keep up with me. I spoke to my older cousin and she just said that although she does not approve she thinks I have a high libido for sex. I read about the libido it means I am the kind of girl who likes to have sex a lot. Is my cousin right and is it like a disease, will it become worse because right now I have sex 4 times a week and I still want more but I can’t always get away from home? I do not have a boyfriend just sex pals.

Maurice’s replies,

Thanks for reminding me what libido means!!!! You sure know how to turn the tables round I can only imagine how manipulative you are towards men. For one, I do know that girls your age are sexually active but I’m not going to pretend as if it doesn’t bother me because it does. Waiting another 4 years to the age of 18 would not have been impossible but then again let’s move along. Do you use protection, I sure hope you do? And how many partners have you slept with to date?

She replies,

I have slept with 21 guys excluding my first, so 22 . I always insist on them wearing protection I have only done it once without but he took me for a check up over a period of 2 months just to be sure, so like I said I am not naive. I am young but I have a brain. I also read a lot about sex.

Maurice’s replies,

Speaking of brains. Shouldn’t you be utilising your brains in school, this is not a lecture it’s the reality of life. Granted its your life you can do as you please but choices we make today will define the future. You are very young and clearly aware of your actions. I don’t believe you are forced to do anything but you have a life ahead of you and boys/men are not going anywhere. All I can ask is that you concentrate on your studies. It doesn’t mean you should stop socialising but don’t let sexual desires be your priority.

She comments,

Maurice why haven’t you answered my question yet? And for your information I am an ‘A’ student. Unlike men I multitask and separate my social life from my studies.

Maurice replies,

I’m glad to know you’re clever so really you should know better ‘hint hint’. In my opinion in regards to your sex drive, you are most likely an nymphomaniac which is the name given to women who have a heightened desire for sex. Is it a disease, is it an addiction, well, it’s still a debate within the domain of sexologists. However it has been known to lead to depression, ruin relationships and because you are having sex more often then the average person you are more prone to be exposed to a variety of  STDs if you are not extra careful.

It’s not to be taken lightly. Even though studies are not 100% conclusive, it has been researched that up to 60% of female sexual addicts were abused during their childhood. If this applies to you then I strongly recommend that you seek assistance from a psychiatrist who is a specialist in childhood abuse. You can start by visiting a women’s centre they will point you in the right direction.

A plea from me:

TO MEN, COME ON GUYS WOMEN OF AGE ARE PLENTY LET’S GIVE THE UNDER 18s A CHANCE TO GROW UP AND ENJOY THEIR CHILDHOOD, WHAT IF THIS WAS YOUR DAUGHTER or SISTER.