Does anyone really know, why I ask this is because if you wikipedia ‘great sex’ you don’ t get profile of a certain person or character that gives great sex. After all one woman’s experience of what she perceives as great sex may be normal sex for another and the same for men. The variables of having enjoyable or mind blowing sex varies per person. What I advise is that both gender stop having high expectation of good sex, why? Because enjoyable sex is not achieved through premeditated expectations or through blue tooth. When was the last time you were blue tooth-ed to orgasm!
Sex is not a ‘plug and play’ sequence where intercourse along will produce mind blowing results. Sex is a series of pleasurable sensations that can be induced by the senses of touch, sound and vigor that your partner responds to.
Apart from the penis, th
e tongue and fingers can do wonders only if you communicate. This goes out to the men, just because you have a penis the size of a nuclear rod it doesn’t mean you are going to pleasure a woman more than a guy with a 4″ penis. I know people say it’s how you work it but beyond that, a man must be willing to learn a woman’s body over time and gradually you will know most of her pressure points, the parts of her body that make her eyes roll or gasp for air if you get my drift. This will in turn reduce the complaints from women that men are selfish ‘because we are not all selfish’, for some men, though few, they gain their ultimate high by witnessing the pleasure they give to a woman, that is that manly feeling that fuels their egos. Not every man will perform the same as the next man so let’s not kid ourselves however when it comes to satisfying a woman; again to the men, take time to follow instructions, those instructions will lead to the unknown which may make you the ‘stud’ of that night, what more do you want to uplift that sexual ego. If your woman wants you to lick her clit for 30 minutes to one hour don’t get lazy, take the challenge and enjoy the motions, you will certainly learn what she likes and once you have that knowledge you will feel awesome to see her orgasm whether through penetration or not.
For both men and women, start to enjoy the journey that sex provides and explore each other, even history tells of stories and tales of those who dared to explore. If you don’t venture beyond the norm than you will undoubtedly not enjoy sex for a long period.
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