mauricetherapy

When it comes to bedroom matters or should I say sex humanity has over centuries evolved and a variety of desires have been derived from the need to explore new sensations and thrills. I believe they call it ‘eating the forbidden fruit’ but I thought as kids we were all told how fruits are good for our health so I’m sure by adulthood we may have an addiction to sweet fruit in which ever form they come!

The desires I speak are better defined as fetishes. A fetish is a personal liking for a certain sexual act or attribute. In many cases fetishes do not require intercourse as we know it. I know some men may ask ‘no intercourse’ then what’s the point? Well let me tell you that men take their manhood tool too seriously and should try out other forms of sexual acts that may achieve orgasmic results that conventional sex cannot.

Let’s look at a few fetishes; A couple that love to have sex either being watched or putting themselves in a situation where they could be seen by a snoopy neighbour. Having sex at the window over looking other homes or at a balcony, for many people this is a major turn on and a rush of sensations stimulated mentally or visually create a very electric sexual session. The phrase ‘back seat of my jeep’ was not a sales pitch for a car dealership it implies and induces mentally visions of having sex on the back seat of a car.

Another fetish is where you have a couple who love to play with food, you name it they have tried it. They get creative with chocolate, ice cream, whipped cream and strawberries, cake with loads of cream to smear on parts of their bodies that are most sensitive. This form of play is also very vital when you want to set the mood, get the burners warming up and get the blood rushing in all the right places especially for men. It’s great and exciting 4-play and once the heat is right the sexual session can be overwhelming and satisfying for both parties.

The sense of touch in the right places can stimulate a ‘high’ achieving an awesome turn-on, it is advisable to always ask your partner where they love to be touched or licked and how they like it. Once you understand your partner’s most sensitive parts of the body then you can arouse sensations that will make them want to ride the ultimate rollercoaster if you get my drift!

Fetishes are not only common with couples. Individuals who make it a point to self arouse are actually doing themselves a big favour by learning and experiencing their most erotic pleasures in the comfort of their own company. This over a period of time links their mental receptors with the areas they touch (play with) to elevate their sexual self awareness. When they have a partner they know exactly what does it for them, what takes them to cloud nine and it decreases and eventually eliminates any inhibition they may have. So what I am saying is practise does make perfect in this scenario.

When it comes to attributes in regards to fetishes especially with men you will find men who love feet, boobs, ass or a full size woman with love handles. These may seem like the ordinary likes of any man but that would be entirely wrong. Men look for certain attributes, even though they may dabble with women who don’t have those unique attributes, they eventually go for what they like most in a woman.