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Bi curious women

Nowadays ‘thankfully’ sexuality is out there…. more and more people are expressing themselves and are not confined to our perceived African conservative lifestyles.

We have evolved as a global society not just within our borders, if I may term it in that manner, some have embrace this freedom of one’s sexuality while others will condemn that freedom or as they call it ‘unnatural behavior’.

Today women are exploring each other and loving every moment.

It is fact that most women are instinctively bi-curious and many heterosexual women over their life time can attest to having some form of attraction to the same sex. The Worldly stats from various studies tend to differ to some degree but what they all show is that about 60% of women have had some kind of lust towards their own sex.

From my own interaction with women over the last 10 years I can say about 40% to 50% have at one time shared an intimate kiss with another woman and yes they like it, those who never indulge again or pursued the attraction further feared to get hooked.

The question beckons…. why is this occurring? why are women making that choice to date each other.

Why is the trend of being bi-sexual growing?

A few pointers, women know each others bodies pretty well (better than men in most cases), women are not in a hurry when it comes to the act of sex, women seek pleasure, women seek sensual love making. Women are tired of settling for that elusive orgasm or that selfish man who blames his hurried cummin’ on her overly sweet pussy….what bollocks!!!!

To men, its a bitter pill but the truth must be said. Here is a fact that you may not like:

A woman who knows what she is doing will most likely pleasure your woman beyond what you can fathom and with more accuracy. How do you over come this as a man? Start by listening to your woman, she possesses a vagina not you, so if you want the vagina that bad and you also want the title of being her ultimate stud between the sheets…. then swallow your pride and follow her every instruction, trust me, men who listen and learn (over time) will always fulfill their woman’s sexual appetite in one way or another.

Just because you wield a penis does not make you the King of the bedroom, even Kings need to be groomed to govern a Kingdom, remember that.

Going back to the bi-curious culture that is spreading like wild fire.

Lets explore that girl on girl desire. Whats going on? When women have sex they enjoy the journey of lust, the journey of erotic desire and nature’s body lotions. They get emotionally close and this creates the setting for passionate motions of love making. Their hands and tongues are attuned to offering pleasure and they read each others body reflexes and react accordingly to generate a mutual flow of sensations. Instinctively they know where to touch, when to touch and how to touch (Ooh it’s such a turn on). Women are aware of all their bodily senses and they tend to subtly communicate during sex. How to pleasure each other is all about communication, if you don’t ask or instruct you will never achieve the ultimate sexual experience.

It is critical to your sex life that as you digest this article, please refrain from the issue of morality, when was the last time you had moral sex? What the hell is that, is sounds so boring. If you are a victim of moral standing when it comes to sex I can only painfully imagine your 4-play flirting format must be pretty strange/weird with comments like

“honey I’m in the mood for moral sex” ah!!!!!!!!!!!

….here’s another line

“baby this position is the definition of morality, oh yes, please bookmark it in your limbic system honey”.

If that is your sex life I only have one question WHY?

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Hi Maurice,

I do hope you are fine, I love your work. I have been wanting to share with you for quite a while and after your last post I kind of felt that it was about time to tell you my story.

I am 33 years old and I was married for 6 years to a man who came from a wealthy family, he is British Kenyan and I am also Kenyan but with a mix of white and Asian. I truly loved my ex husband wholesomely with every ounce of me. He was my pillar for a long while but unfortunately I was only a trophy wife, looking back after our divorce the signs were there but as we women do we ignore our instincts hoping that things will work out.

Anyway to be perfectly honest after I could not take the loneliness anymore I begun an affair with a black Kenyan, what a man he turned out to be. He treats me like a Queen, we are in our 4th year and I am loving every minute of my life with him. My friends don’t get it because my man isn’t rich but he brings home a pay cheque and so do I and we manage to maintain a fun and stable lifestyle. I used to receive a brand new car and expensive jewelry just out of the blue and visit very exclusive Hotels but now all that is over shadowed by a genuine effort to take me out for dinner to wine and dine me as I enjoy my favorite Chinese meals. What more can a girl ask for.

Oh and my man in my opinion gave me my first intense orgasm, the difference, one is has endurance and he is so blessed. I have actually met you years ago but I am sure you can’t recall but in the forum we were in I recall your blunt self mentioning that a man’s penis girth makes all the difference, and boy were you right. I can feel my man inside me from start to finish, he really spreads my vaginal walls and it creates such an intense orgasm. For the last 4 years I have known and achieved what they call multiple orgasms. Life is great what can I say.

Keep doing what you do, you give a lot of people hope in many ways.
Maurice replies,

Thank you for sharing. It’s readers like you that keep me going.

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Hi Maurice,
I wanted to thank you for the escort that you hooked me up with, the guy was great in conversation and in other areas he did not disappoint LoL, in short he was worth it.

I was just wondering if I could learn how to squirt by myself, how long does it take to be able to pleasure myself is what I am asking, after Sue showed me and made me squirt through the night I have not been able to trigger the spot even though I know where she was touching. Is it me holding back or?

Maurice replies,

I’m glad you enjoyed your ‘dinner date’

About your squirting ability, you may be holding back or not concentrating as you should. Firstly you should be in the mood, horny-ish, it’s a mental hurdle for first timers but you’ll get over it

Whatever sets the mood for you ‘apply it’, if its sensual music, if its porn because of the visual and especially the sound effects, sexual sounds arouse the part of the brain that releases feel good juices. You need to clear you mind and concentrate on mentally setting the mood then start to play with yourself, closing your eyes and paying attention to the motions of arousing yourself is recommended

As shown by Sue, stroke your clitoris gently till you reach a rhythm that starts to stimulate and harden your clit, then insert you 2 fingers and apply the ‘come here’ motion (apply slight pressure on your nerve ends aka g-spot), keep stroking in the ‘come here’ motion till you feel like you want to pee, if you get there then you are on the path to ecstasy, if you let go of that felling you will squirt, a gush of water will eject from your vagina.

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Sex in the Kitchen

They say that the way to a man’s heart is through great food…. really!

Men, when was the last time you stared at a piece of chicken breast or thigh ‘whatever takes your fancy’ and walla you suddenly had a boner!!!!

And if you did achieve a boner, that must have been one hell of a chicken or some weird fetish, enough said

Now, lets head to the kitchen where something should always be cooking. It’s a Saturday and you have the whole day to play, if you get my drift.

Imagine your woman, your girl in a skimpy number cooking up a meal, its all steamy and the heat is intensifying with every boiling pot. Concentrate on her nipples, and for those who can’t multitask just look at one, especially if she’s standing right next to the steaming pot, wearing a 70% polyester t-shirt, the moisture is aiding to unveil her nipples as they clearly ‘pop’ on your t-shirt surface…. mmmmmh what an arousing visual

You can’t resist her so you get closer until you are right behind her (be careful not to push her onto the boiling pot), you then put your arms around her by the waist, rub her tummy ‘gently’, whisper into her ear (something erotic), remember you are attempting to create the ‘mood’ so refrain from statements like “honey have put enough salt”, it’s ALL about 4-play not cooking tips!

As you whisper those erotic words you will instinctively generate a mental visual of the naughty things you are cooking up in your creative mind, this will lead her to feeling a bump poking her bum…. oh yes…. here comes that boner, she can feel every throb as you move ever closer and firmly hold her

If the scenario allows, slowly take down whatever she is wearing and commence to licking her ass, she has 2 cheeks so make sure you attend to each generously, as you do this she will be trying her best to multitask as she absorbs the sensations you are generating and strains to concentrate on the matter in hand…. ‘the cooking’

Now whip your cock out and rub it on her ass, from one cheek to the other, tell her not to turn around (if you’re lucky she will know how to role play and be submissive at that point), your cock is now extremely hard and she can feel a rod prodding behind her

The situation is now heading towards ‘getting out of hand’ and her vagina juices are flowing (sexual anticipation), take your shaft and penetrate her and maintain minimal thrusts, feel your shaft’s girth rub her vagina inner walls, don’t let the excitement (dopamine heightened levels) overwhelm you, mentally take charge and make her moan and groan, feel every inch of your penis embrace her vagina fluids

This is 4-play, after about 10 to 15 minutes of throbbing inside her ‘don’t cum’ let her finish cooking, your objective was to tease her and let her yearn for more of that cock

Do try this at home or wherever…. explore and enjoy

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At this point the sexual heat is high, your body is a beacon of desire….

After sucking her nipples, let her climb onto of you and engage in a comfortable positioning for both of you and mentally ‘bookmark’ that position, especially if she moans as your penis penetrates her…. oh yes she can certainly feel your penis girth

Kiss her sensually, share a passionate kiss, let your lips merge and become one, your bodies are on over drive so you can hear each other breath as you kiss

Kiss her neck on both sides but take your sweet time to move along her neck contours and sense her body language as you lick and suck her neck, whenever she moans or holds you tighter then ‘that’s the spot’, you will indeed find many sensitive spots around her neck, your limbic system which registers sexual pleasure in your brain will always aid you to ‘bookmark’ her most sensitive pleasure zone, and its paramount that you also listen out for any instructions she may utter during all that passion. Men who listen keenly prevail

Now she is onto of you, her vagina has adapted to your penis girth, she can feel your every move inside her

Ask her ‘baby what do you want’, ‘where should I touch’

With her aerial view she may lead you to her breasts, gently start to play with her nipples, lubricate her nipple(s) with your saliva or hers to maximise on a pleasurable session of touch

Some women are so sensitive, so she may look and sound like she’s cumming so don’t be alarmed, give her more, and don’t get carried away keep the nipple tweaking at a motion that excites her,watch her facial expression they will let you know if you are doing it right. If she begins to ride you in a back & forth motion hold her ass firmly and aid her motion, at one point she may want full control so give it to her, let her rock your World!

To the ladies, sometimes, instead of the up & down motion as you ride him, apply the back & forth motion, like a belly dancer, that motion stimulates the penis and depending on your onto positioning the penis head will stimulate your nerve endings (your g-spot)

Here cums that orgasm

The sexual rodeo is on

Her nipples are so hard and pointed she could cut glass

Let her ride you facing the other way, you can be on your bed, on your sitting room couch, on a stable chair and just let her rock, and rock and rock, let her use your nuclear rod looking penis as her vessel to the land of erotic ecstasy.

While she rides you, as you lay or sit still you can throb your penis, that will fill your penis with blood and your girth will resonate heat within her vagina walls, that heat can make her cum over and over (don’t be surprised you don’t have to pound a woman like a builder to make her cum), subtle movements that trigger chemicals and nerves within her vagina can make her cum and achieve the big ‘O’ , the ultimate orgasm that makes a woman shiver and even shake uncontrollably

After riding you and the pleasure is too intense she may lie back against your chest with your penis still inside her, don’t move from that position, let her enjoy the moment, her body is probably experiencing a roller coaster of sensations, if you can however throb your penis ‘slowly’, touch her breasts, her nipples, feel her up, stretch your arm and place your finger on your clitoris and apply a bit of pressure and apply a circular motion ‘slowly’, this is a good way of reigniting the sexual session momentum, in short, you are not done yet!

It’s time to reposition

Penetrate her in the missionary position only this time lay her on the bed and give her your shaft as you stand at the side of the bed

Look into each others eyes as you deliver your shaft, engage in a rhythm that she likes and give it to her, don’t rush, you can gradually speed up but watch her response to affirm she is responding well to your rhythm changes

Try placing her feet on your chest and avoid applying your body weigh on her, that position hits the g-spot pretty accurately, and you must thrust in a slight upward motion so that your penis head generates friction on the upper level of her vagina, if she indicates that she likes the feeling and you maintain that position, if she allows herself to let go of the pee-ing sensation, you will feel ‘at that point’ a building bulge putting pressure on your penis ‘as if pushing it out of her vagina’, that GENTS is the beacon that tells you she is about to explode, yes she is going to squirt

Ladies and gents, don’t ever be afraid to wet your bed, you can always turn the mattress around, after all it’s only a water like fluid that gushes out of the vagina, the question is, would you rather have a dry bed with lousy sex or a wet bed due to intense erotic sex

If you would rather have a dry bed then this sex educational article is not for you.

Oh my, its time to reposition again

Before you engage in this position

Lick her clit, be sure to suck on her labia and let her suck your cock

Simultaneous sex is awesome

Even the thought is stimulating, take turns in this position, let her ride you ‘back & forth’ and hold her legs as you thrust into her, remember the lower part of your penis vein will now be stimulating her upper vagina wall, her g-spot and the friction will feel different with the bulge of your vein flowing with blood

Now it’s time to up the momentum, she is moist, she wet as hell, she wants it so bad, GIVE IT TO HER

Take her from the back, turn into that Wolf, that Dog, let your canine coooock thrust her

She is screaming out for more and she wants it deeper and deeper and harder, give her that shaft just as she likes it

The beast in you should activate her sound senses as you ask “you want it deeper and harder”….”then take it, take it baby”

Her nails by now are engraving alien language into the pillows, her bodily chemicals of arousal are all over the place, she doesn’t know whether to scream or shout, her breathing is erratic, maintain your rhythm, the moment is almost upon you, she will let you know when she can’t hold back anymore…. her juices are at boiling point, she will soon cream your cock…. oh shit she’s about to ‘cum’

When she cums let her come and lay onto of you

Let her appreciate your effort

Share that intimate kiss

It’s the pillow talk commercial break

Remember, your work is not done, you are letting her cool down a bit…. then….

Take her to another part of the house and begin to arouse her again

Women love a man who consistently licks their clit ‘really good’

Lick and lick like your life depended on it

Remember, you are the vessel of her every pleasure

Allow yourself to be used and sexually abused, I’m sure ‘you get my drift’

Let her look at you and say “damn this man wants to kill me” (that’s a good thing)

It’s been a journey and a half to this point so take your time, her labia by now looks like its swollen with the stimulation of the nerves, suck her labia, one by one (there are only 2 labia flaps so don’t go looking for more)

You’re done with the staircase or couch

Try the bathroom

Try the kitchen

If you have a tub, hmmmm…. let the motions begin, let the water splash!

Place your penis on her breasts and squeeze her breasts together, thrust onto her breast valley, pure some melted chocolate, shit you can apply margarine if that takes your fancy

A tub of ice cream can come in handy, scoop a teaspoon and feed each other, from one mouth to the other, ‘fuck’ ‘fuck’ feel your penis erection grow, feel it swell as she plays with your shaft, finger after finger, let her give you a hand job as she sucks your lower and upper shaft area

Making love is great

But now you need to fuck her and watch yourself in the mirror

Let the beast in you erupt with power and stamina, take charge, seize the moment, you are a Spartan ‘give it to her’

Thrust her over and over and over, she has no where to escape

In this position her she can feel your cock’s girth deep inside her, she may even imply that she can feel you thrusting all the way into her abdomen, don’t you dare stop, she might kill you ‘literally’ if you do, this position may also make you feel like ejaculating but you must resist the urge at all costs, control your soldiers, and whatever you do ignore her “come baby come” calls, tell her this is not Miguna time and keep thrusting from here to Canada!

The time has come for you to let her please you, let her make you explode

Get into your favorite position, the position that gets you there, for some men when she gets back onto and rides you like there’s no tomorrow you moan and groan as you try and hold back but the intensity of things ‘her vaginal juices’ just get you there, that feeling of the build up is sweet and indeed you can feel your penis throbbing due to the eruption that is moments away

If you get the rhythm right and your minds are in-sync you will cum together

Many women love to feel that warm flow of your semen spray inside their vagina, at times it actually induces an orgasm for the woman

MEN, she may have used you as a vessel of pleasure and to be honest that’s your role as a man ‘yes’ to be used to satisfy her every sexual desire, so get used to it

Once your sexual journey has come to an end

It’s only a pit stop, a time to rest, recuperate from all that activity

Take her in your arms and make her feel safe, remember to kiss her before she drifts into lala land, cover her up with the duvet and keep her warm, hold her tight and follow her into the land of tranquility

Beware! If her libido is high, she may want more at 5am….

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In my business the issue of sex is evidently the issue that stands out everyday, every week, every month; so instead of dwelling on the negatives let’s look at ways to enjoy sex and most of all prolong the pleasures derived from the motions of sex, the motions of making love….

Let’s embark on the journey that makes sex delightful….

Its always good to create a baseline, to create a positive atmosphere from which you can stimulate each other, by teasing, flirting and just having fun

Taking a bath together, for those who like to freshen up before sex is an ideal setting to chat and build up into sexual flirting, after-all you are both naked, here’s your foundation that you can build on and generate sexual chemistry with snippets of what you want to do to each other

Leading each other on in form of hints can be fun, if you can navigate humor into your flirting, a bit of laughter will sooth the heart

Let it not be nuclear science, take every moment as it comes and don’t over think when it comes to what you think she or he wants to hear

Teasing and flirting induces a lot of sexual brain activity and the more ‘feel good’ chemicals you have flowing within you the better

Remember that although sex is a physical act, the key element that makes sex fun and allows for inhibitions to wither away is your mental state

Men are known to rush, so don’t, she’s not going anywhere, she is yours for the night

Get naked and stand up, hold each other and share a sensual moment where you just hold each other and kiss, slowly, kiss over and over as if you don’t want that moment to ever end

As you kiss, if you like your upper or lower lip sucked on or gently bit then tell your partner just how you want it done

As you kiss, let your hands wander around, feel each others body

Explore the rear part of your bodies and touch each others ass aka ‘bottoms’, arouse each other with subtle whispers of sexual intent as you kiss, this is all part of foreplay

Touch her breasts and play with her nipples, and because this is a sensitive area to ascertain your touch is doing a great job don’t be shy to ask her in your most sexy voice ‘how she likes it done’, follow any instruction she may give and watch how she reacts to your touch

Sex is about exploring and truth be told you will never know your woman’s body 100%, why, because as she ages her bodily desires are likely to change so you must be willing to adapt and fine tune your skills by being a dedicated sexual student

When you met her you were an under grad, before you knew it your well into your Masters, the sky is the limit ‘or not’

Now that you have acquired your PHD, her body echoes ‘orgasm’ after ‘orgasm’

Squeeze her breasts just the way she likes it and feel her up

Make her moan with your every sensual touch, be firm but gentle

If you are standing behind her let her feel your penis throbbing behind her

Keep squeezing her breasts and lick her neck or whisper sweetness into her ear

Let her experience a multitude of sensations through your touch and sound, your manly moans of pleasure will synchronize with her moans, close your eyes and soak in the pool of sensations

Slow the momentum

Hold her firm, make her feel secure, wanted

Compliment each other, this is all about the build up, the foreplay

Foreplay is like a roller coaster, it builds up gently then it sets off a rush, your body is intensely stimulated by the rush

Your body is crying out for more, but you slow things down again only to increase the tempo, that’s the art of the ultimate tease

Again, kiss her, kiss each other sensually and keep kissing till you crave for more then to intensify your craving continue kissing, it’s torture but it’s sweet

If you aim to seduce her and play with her as you explore the path of foreplay then it’s time to arouse her vagina

Start by licking and as you lick and arouse her within minutes you should feel her get moist meaning her estrogen is doing exactly what it should be doing by allowing for her to get wet

Take your time ‘down town’

You’re not in water so you need not come up for air

As you lick you should graduate to sucking her clitoris, again it’s crucial you do it right, so if in doubt, ask her how she likes it, learn to read her facial expressions and body language, remember with learning from her you acquire knowledge and with that knowledge you get to make her scream with pleasure ‘what more can a man ask for’

Foreplay is all about exploring your environment so change her positioning so that she can experience a new visual that will most likely arouse her, especially if the position you have put her in registers with her as erotic, the mind is a great and complex biological machinery, it can translate scenarios to induce very erotic thoughts

As you suck her clit twirl your tongue, as you suck create a vacuum where you suck and gently pull at her clit through the oral vacuum

If you do it right you should witness her getting very aroused and with a look of surprise, wondering what the f**k are you doing to her, but don’t make her cum yet!

Reposition yourselves and let her please you

You know your penis better so don’t hope for the best, tell her how you want her to work it

You can arouse yourself by placing your penis on her breasts, feel your penis touch her breasts (oh yes)

Let her feel you up, touch your ass and squeeze it

Tell her to hold your shaft and say hello by giving it a kiss, she shouldn’t be in a hurry to deep throat, not yet anyway, tell her to be generous with her saliva, your penis needs to be soaked, her natural lubrication is all you need before she begins to rub on your shaft

Now she is sucking at the tip of your penis

Let the saliva reign

Let her twist her hand gently as she moves from top to bottom and back up again, tell her what rhythmΒ  to maintain once she gets the hand motion right

To get the best out of a blow job it is crucial for her to slightly tilt your penis down wards until a painless pressure is maintained, the pressure increases the erection strength and also helps in sustaining a longer harder erection

Some women look up at you to get confirmation that their efforts are satisfactory so do you noble duty and affirm to her that she is doing a great job (assuming she is)

Again foreplay dictates that you must change positions again, and if you are a kinky man who is willing to explore her pleasure zones, then turn her around and lick her ass, every inch, and make your way to her vagina and do what you must with all your might

Hold her butt cheeks firmly and spread her cheeks slightly so that you have full view of her vagina

She may get very wet or be very wet at this point so enjoy her juices

Suck her so good that she craves for you, I believe you get my drift, but don’t give in, give her more of your tongue

And more tongue

Let her juices flow into your mouth

Keep licking

Keep her moist

Say sexual things to her that may pop in your mind

She has an aerial view of you at this point so she is keenly watching your every move as you devour her vagina

Keep the tongue lashing going to her liking, make her beg for your cock and then keep licking at her till she says ‘oh shit’, that’s a great sign of things to cum!

Repositioning is the order of the day

Now play with her vagina with your fingers (with cut nails)

Lubricate your fingers with your saliva or hers, be gently until her vagina is used to this foreign engagement known as your finger or fingers

If you want to induce the water works known as squirting, at this point you are allowed

Place your finger or 2 fingers on her upper inner vaginal wall and feel for a pumpy area, that’s where her nerve endings are, if stimulated correctly her vaginal will instantly turn into a fountain gushing out a water like liquid that you are welcome to have spray on your face or drink.

The aim is not to make her squirt or orgasm during the foreplay but to arouse her to the point of no return

Place her on the edge of the bed or sofa and start to rekindle the kisses you had at the beginning of this sexual session

By now you are both emitting enough heat to power a village for a week

Embrace the moment and sensually acknowledge one another

Yes, it’s not easy not to want to dive in but time for all that action is soon knocking, you just need to open the door or is it flood gates!

As you kiss her, let her know she is special, that she is sexy in every way possible, tell her that your penis has been throbbing tirelessly anticipating entry into her secret garden

Lure her onto the bed and suck her breast as you play with her clit

You won’t need to tell her to close her eyes, the sensations going through her body will do that for you

Take your hand away from her vagina and lick it

Now switch to the other breast, always tend to both, it’s only fair to please the pair, she will be grateful as she orders you not to stop whatever you are doing….

THAT WAS PART I….

Look out for PART II coming soon….

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Personally I have no idea what she was trying or should I say attempting

I recommend she unplugs the roller and embarks on sanitizing the roller so that she can cook some chapatis for her unsuspecting guests

What was she thinking?

When I say ‘be creative’, if you don’t own a vibrator, this is not an option

 

Speaking of chapatis, I love them

 

 

Something tells me I am not alone in saying that this was not what KWS had in mind forΒ  local tourism

I’m sure the brochure in the Western WorldΒ  appeals to some tourists but ‘really’

 

 

 

 

If you happen to be bored at home and your thinking of doing something sexy something kinky, please don’t do this….

Do this for your boyfriend or husband, and if you do and are clearly willing to get naked then invest in hiring a professional photographer

 

 

I believe that we should all be one with nature, preserve our trees, our forests, our catchment areas but this is not how to do it

 

 

 

 

 

Let’s assume this was one of those photos that people exchange on social media, and trust me there’s a lot of nudity going on (which is fine with me), anyway assuming I did receive this photo I would be very worried on the prospects of flooding at that canyon!

That said I must give her some credit for her appearance effort and location

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Women do orgasm while sleeping

This orgasmic experience during sleep is witnessed among women who think about sex when awake.Β  Waking cognition includes memory (the limbic system) where sexual memory is stored, fantasy, desire, imagination, and familiarity with sexual pleasure and the orgasmic reflex.

It is likely that formal education, intelligence, personality characteristics, and other cultural factors also influence these sleep mentations aka mental activities.Β  Orgasmic responses during sleep seem more likely when there is some level of involuntary nervous system arousal before sleep, including both psychological and physiological elements. Some of the women who think of their desires during the day usually find themselves masturbating in the office.

Physiological elements include lingering arousal from waking orgasms or other sexual behavior; however, this arousal may also be due to hormonal fluctuations, physical exercise, or emotional states such as anxiety, or anger.

It is likely that these sleep orgasms occur more frequently among lucid dreamers due to possible neurological conditions unique to the lucid dream state, and the conscious freedom to commit to a course of action, in this case pleasure. These sleep orgasms are very common among young women especially in their teens, why, because they don’t have stress levels that may hinder sexual functions, their hormones are active, depending on their sexual exposure their minds are set to explore and allow for desires and fetishes to nurture in their young minds.

One of the simpler explanation to why some women orgasm in their sleep much easier than during sexual intercourse is because while asleep they have no control over their bodily functions, arousal is not limited by any factors, inhibitions are at their lowest if at all there. Hence why some women will attest to having very intense orgasm in their sleep or much later after they have had sex. Men experience this phenomena during wet dreams, an honest man will owe up to having incredible wet dreams where you find that his ejaculation is much stronger than when having sex with a woman.

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Dear Maurice,

I must say that I was very curious about this squirting business on your blog that’s why I bought your dvd a few months ago. My wife and I discussed our sex life in length and we both felt that we could explore other avenues and just have fun with sex. Over the last 9 years we had tried everything to the point where sex almost became boring. We kind of ran out of ideas so to speak. She came across your blog and told me about it then I checked it out for myself and found that you actually gave honest advise, keep it up bro.

Anyway I believe I have mumbled enough. When we watched the dvd together we got turned on and started to make out after about 15 minutes so we never got to view the entire content. Eventually we did, then we saw the woman squirting in the last scene, my guy, we were both shocked and excited by the visual. We were like “is that for real”. That night for about one hour I did my best to mimic what I had seen but it was all in vain. I must admit at that point I felt useless and very inadequate but my wife ‘to my surprise’ was very encouraging and told me that it was our first trial and the next trial should yield some fruit. So we stayed for a while without watching the dvd till this pasted weekend. We decided to apply the instructions as we watched the segment where the woman explains how to rub the pussy. I applied the two finger motion and pressure for about 20 minutes then finally my wife responded, her exact words were “I think I am going to pee-ing”, I told her to let go of the feeling and not to hold back, she then told me to continue that finger motion without stopping, her facial expression told the story then the water works started, WHAT! my guy, I have never experienced such a thrilling feeling as a man. My wife said that was the most intense feeling she has ever experienced, she never thought it was possible.

Honestly I know where I was touching and rubbing but I am clueless on how I made it happened! When the water works started I continued with the same rhythm and she just continued squirting over my hand. Boss you have introduced us to a new sexual World asante sana.

Maurice replies,

My good man, I believe I should be thanking you for your feedback, thank you sir, I’m glad you discovered something new that does not require you to penetrate. I’m also glad that men are willing to explore and learn rather than assume they know it all. No one knows it all, knowledge is only acquired with the interest to learn and if you put effort into the application as you did, then you will inevitably prevail.

Have fun in the bedroom and again thank you for sharing.

I just hope that more couples are able to communicate like you and your wife.

 

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Why do men fancy breasts?

If by any chance you know of a man who claims he is not fascinated by breasts, you know a man who is lying. Very few guys will pass up an opportunity to glance or stare at a woman’s bosom,Β  a man will at least attempt a short look at her covered “boobies”. If the “boobies” are exposed or flashed at him, a man will surely be taking a much longer look.

Women ask why do men obsess over breasts, they ask whats the big deal, once you’ve seen breasts you should one day just not bother or be excited by them, well most women are not aware that there are certain chemicals released in our brain that are called ‘feel good chemicals’ in layman’s terms. The neurochemicals like endorphins and dopamine induce such strong sensations that we can not resist but want to fondle with breasts at any chance we get. Within your brain is the limbic system which stores sexual memory.

On a day to day routine men glance at breasts of almost 95% of the women they encounter on the road, on the bus, on the train, in the office; men just don’t get tired of looking.

Many men will relate to staring at a woman’s blouse hoping to see the indentation of a nipple or two. After all some women have nipples that are always at ‘attention’, these nipples don’t need the wet t-shirt contest effect to be visible. Just the thought of nipples is ‘mouth watering’ for me, yet I have studied and touched many over the years, but yet every time the thought of boobs engages my mind it’s as if I have just seen breasts for the first time, it’s an overwhelming feeling, and yes it does aid to arouse.

The truth is a majority of men restrain themselves from grabbing a total stranger’s breasts. But the moment we get a chance to play with them, the very second we believe that we can fondle your breasts and get away with it, we visually engage our target like a fight jet and set course to embrace them.

Even though we may have a common denominator your ‘boobies’, some men have a preference in cup size. Some like the petite boob that can fit in our mouth, others like a boob that fits just right in the palm of the hand.

Another set of men love the heavy duty breasts, these breasts can normally knock you out if she is riding you and happens to lower her upper body to kiss you. These breasts sway from left to right or they can somewhat rotate or should I say spin….aahhhh “the mental stimulant is great”.

That said, it’s not just men that have a desire for breasts. I have met in both a professional and pleasurable capacity women who admire other women’s breasts, so yes ladies, too are guilty of being breast obsessed. The science behind this desire is wired within us as humans, it is wired in our brain as infants. Most of us got a taste and lived off of the milk melons at one point in our life, so it’s only understandable that we carry a certain fondness for them as we grow older.

At this juncture some ladies may be saying “hold on there I don’t want to feel up another woman’s breasts”, which is fair enough but you only have to ask a bi-sexual woman or lesbian how the touch of breasts feels for them then you will realise that both gender have common elements of breast admiration and a desire to play with them.

To the men, some of you are tweaking breasts as if you are handling electrical devices ‘please stop’, instead ask her how she likes it, it won’t make you less of a man to ask and if anything over time you will be a master breast tweaker ‘how we love those titles’, put your egos aside and delve into a new World of knowing your woman’s body to the point that just ‘touch’ alone makes her squirm with intense pleasure.

 

 

 

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