I have been asked does size matter for years and my answer will vary depending on the context. If you are used to a 6 inch penis then a drop down to 3 inches may psychologically affect you however its all in the technique and skill set of the man. Your attitude as a woman will also influence the firmness of a man’s penis erection. In short have a positive attitude. Your favourite response should not be ‘no’. There is only so much negativity a man can take before his ability to gain an erection for you is terminated permanently.
In this case I am responding to the following question ‘how to enjoy sex when you encounter a small dick’.
The answer is simple. First, small is relative unless his penis is smaller than an index finger. Any woman who will refer a penis as small has obviously seen a bigger one hence the reason you are comparing. A man has three ways of pleasuring a woman even that guy with a 9 inch penis has nothing on an average sized man who knows how to read a woman’s body and is willing to explore and pleasure using his fingers, tongue and penis. In my opinion some men take their penis ‘way too seriously’, give it a rest and start using your fingers and tongue. You will be surprised how powerful your tongue is especially if you instruct the woman to push her vaginal muscles outwards to the point you can clearly see her urethra blossom. At that point you can give her multiple orgasm as long as you take your time flicking and twirling your tongue around her bumpy nerve endings within her upper wall of her vagina. Taking your time is key to her gaining pleasure. Lick her vagina slowly and don’t act like ‘mr know it all’, communicate in a sexy voice, don’t talk to her as if you are in a construction site. Ask her how she likes it, let her direct you, if you are licking her right she won’t have to tell you, you will see her reaction and hear her moans.
In another context, ladies if you are out there mingling and you happened to get horny and you ‘encounter’ a small penis stop bitching about it and work with what you have. Unfortunately men don’t wear a tag with penis specifications so when you pick your random guy in the club unless you follow him to the ‘gents’ to inspect the goods you are taking a chance. He may look the part but when you get home he may not play the part to your satisfaction and you can’t take him back to the club for a refund!
For those ladies who for some reason always find themselves lured to the car with lines like “lets take a walk”, you should use that blow job session as your penis interview, if you hold the penis and your fingers don’t go round the penis then you have a winner, its girthy so it will definitely induce some sensation. What you will not be able to tell during your deep throat contest by the car is his endurance until you have intercourse.
Good hunting….
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To my readers,
I am doing some research and I need your feedback. I am targeting that single person who lives alone or shares with someone else (like a housemate). Especially that person who knows that sexuality for them is important. The details I need are:
1) When you are mingling or courting, when you finally get intimate, what makes sex interesting for you?
2) Do you have sexual fetishes/fantasies that are never met by people you meet?
3) If you have more than one sexual partner, what makes one partner more appealing sexually than the rest?
4) Do you find that flings work for you because its all about fun and you can’t be bothered with the complications that come with dating?
5) Assuming in your opinion you are having awesome sex, how long do your flings last before the fire burns out, is it days, weeks, months? And what causes the burn out?
6) What is your opinion of Kenya’s social arena, if it were up to you what would you change in the social arena?
You can respond by inbox via facebook (maurice matheka makau) or you can email me: exploreyourlimits@yahoo.com
Your feedback will be appreciated. All communication is confidential. I will compile a general report based on your collective response.
This is a piece that gives a great insight on size vs skill. Even the man with great girth can be a serious disaster in bed if he always puts his needs first. I concur with you Maurice, though now have me wondering about the “smaller than your index finger” concept…
OMG…. So true! Am “seeing” this guy who is small by any standards but… I enjoy sex with him more than with my hubby who is very well endowed. Actually…. His tongue and fingers do wonders too… And I have like 3 orgasms every time! Thing is, we have serious chemistry with my boo which is not there with hubby…. Yet I still Love my hubby (paradox!)… And my boo has serious ego issues about his dick size… Which I think hinders him from hooking up with other chics ( well, am not complaining) but sometimes I feel bad for him, coz that inferiority consumes him to the point of using material stuff to find comfort… Like buying a range rover etc…. Anyway, in case there is a “small” man out there reading this….just know… Size doesn’t matter!