mauricetherapy

Men are always asking ‘what must we do or say in order to attract women’. Seldom do men think of the other way round. What must we men abstain from doing or saying in order not to leave a bad impression or simply turn off a woman. The truth is there is no guidebook to follow  to what you are supposed to do or not to do.

Women like men that are sincere and true, then again some men have no idea what that means from one woman to the next. Do not try to be somebody else just so that you can impress a woman. For instance, do not try to fake an accent. It is common for men especially to put on an accent to sound more exposed or is it more exotic! Just be yourself otherwise once your act expires she will soon know the real you which might completely turn her off. Do not try to act cool, act smart or be proud. If you are hot no one can take that from you so over kill will back fire on you ‘be yourself’. Believe it or not but many women like men that are humble and modest. Don’t play MR COOL, if she has accepted to go on a date or see you for a second date there must be something she likes about you so don’t go spoiling it with some fake act.

When out on a date, it is good to start a conversation by introducing yourself to the women and talking a bit about yourself. And I mean a bit. Do not get carried away and babble about yourselves non-stop, about your childhood, your achievements, your beloved car and its rims. Since it is a conversation, give the women an opportunity to speak and give yourself a chance to listen while resting your mouth. Many men get carried away while on a date and talk about themselves non-stop. Don’t let her think you are egocentric, its a date not an interview.

Please men, if you are aware that you have a problem of bad breath, do something about it. Many men may not know it but they do have this bad breath problem. Mints and gum are great to keep your breath fresh but it is equally important that you brush your teeth everyday, morning and evening if possible. Trust me, no woman wants to smell your garlic breath.

A man who does not bathe for days or watch their personal hygiene is a complete turn off.  Men, it is important to pay close attention to your body odour, invest in cologne or deodorant spray.

Why do some women sexually no longer crave their partner? Well lets start with the foundation of the relationship, if you happened to be dating or married to someone whom you are no longer sexually attracted to then at your foundation stage (while courting) you may have ignored your sexual compatibility and like many couples you probably believed that love will conquer all. I hate to disappoint but love does not conquer ‘sexual desire’. You cannot trick your mind to sexually want someone. Caring for another human being and building and sustaining sexual desire for them are two completely separate things. For many couple once the honeymoon phase is over and your so called chemistry was based entirely on feel good neuro-chemicals then your sexual desire gradually drops for your partner. Many couples disregard sexual attraction hoping the ‘notion’ of love will keep them together. Now that theory may work for women who can love the worse of men unconditionally but for men its about practical attraction. A man cannot force his penis to gain an erection just because there is a naked woman in front of him. Having an erection is not plug and play and I wish men would tell women the truth. Having an erection is not so simple especially if the man in question has a particular female look or attribute that turns him on.

It is critical that a woman dates or marries a man who knows how to ring her bell over and over and over. A man who touches her and something in her brain is triggered to the point she cannot decline his advances. That is why some women can testify to once dating a man who would touch them and wake them up at 2am or 5am and she would get so wet just by his touch. On the other hand some men regardless of what they do will never get that woman wet at 5am, if anything she is usually so pissed off wondering why her beauty sleep is being interrupted. There is no school to learn how to make a woman wet at 5am, you either have that midas touch or you don’t.

If you want to keep a woman’s fire burning it is your duty as a man to follow her instructions, you do not have a vagina so don’t pretend or act like a ‘vagina expert’ and yet your line of work is civil engineering. Unless you are planning to construct a ‘by pass’ or a bridge between her legs I advise you listen to her so that you can press her pleasure buttons and satisfy her orgasm after orgasm without feeling like you have been running a marathon. Men who follow instructions get to witness the pleasures a woman can experience, be that man.