mauricetherapy

Dear Maurice,

I have been dating the love of my life for a while now. I actually had big plans for our future, she was the jewel in my eye, the hottest woman I had ever met and I can’t believe what she did to me. She always told me or implied that all was well between us only for her to email her friends and some of my friends telling them and I quote “he is terrible in bed. I don’t even know why I have been waiting my time with him, the only value to me is his cash”.

After reading her mail which was forwarded to me by the same friends I realised she was out to bruise my manhood.

This was a woman I was going to propose to later this year, if she really thought I was a waste of her time why did she spend so much time with me trotting around the Country having fun?

Maurice replies,

As you quoted her words, she enjoyed your cash, your ability to spend on her.

He replies,

Fair enough, but why email our mutual friends about private matters?

Maurice asks,

Did you have an argument?

He replies,

No, the only thing is that for the last few months I had been telling her how I really feel and her response was not what I expected so I questioned her about her commitment to me. Did I push her to the edge?

Maurice replies,

Asking someone where you stand in your relationship is your right otherwise how can you embark on a journey blindly. So no, I do not believe you pushed her and even if you did she had no right to publish trash about you. Her actions in my opinion are of a woman who was not ready to settle with you as her man. I hate to say it but you were a means to an end, she had enough of you and that was her malicious way of getting rid of you.

He replies,

Women are just full of crap my guy. When you are not exclusive they complain and bitch calling you a player, and when you plan to be exclusive they stab you in the back. There’s no winning with women, that is what she has forced me to believe.

Maurice replies,

I feel your frustration. It’s always good to remember that sometimes with some women ‘good intentions’ never win. But do not go from ‘good guy’ to ‘bad guy’ because of one woman. The reality of the dynamics of relationships is that there’s always a risk element hence why people get mismatched.

My advise to you is first ‘hold back’ on the wallet issue, don’t be too quick to please and pamper a woman with your cash, that formula is usually short lived, after all a woman can always find a guy who out weighs your ATM.

The question is, is she there genuinely or does she have an ulterior motive?

Those women who don’t give you time because you are not showering them  with your monetary ability are a waste of time, it doesn’t matter how HOT she is just let her go. Seek for a woman who values you as a human being, who values you for who you are. I must say though, that those women are rare to find especially in these hard economic times but they are there ‘somewhere’.

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I would like to add that those MEN who tend to predominantly attempt to impress women via their wallets are only fooling themselves. You may think you are on top of things but really it’s the woman or women you are entertaining that are pulling your strings, in essence you are nothing but their puppet until they are done with you or if you are really unlucky they marry you and play you like a flute.

Look it up in the dictionary, being a man does not constitute to spending money to impress. Here is a hard pill to swallow, men know that in many cases it’s the man who spends cash that receives artificial attention however it’s the smooth silent predator ‘who hardly spends’ that gets laid that night.

Think about it, don’t be a flute!