Hi Maurice,
I just saw your piece on the Nakuru saga. I too was a victim of love with a younger girl. Two weeks ago my girlfriend for 8 months and I were to head to a party together but little did I know she had a double date. I turned up and so did the other dude. Let me confess that for a good 3 hours she was playing us both until by chance I spotted her walking away from the crowd so I followed curiously only to find her in the arms of some other guy who was clearly younger than myself. I did not react, I went back and joined our mutual friends, I wanted to see how she plays her game. Can you believe after about an hour she returned to our table and I asked her where she had gone? She said she was mingling with other friends, so I played it cool and watched her play her game all night till we eventually left the house party. And where did we head to next, a club of course and guess who followed us there, that same guy from the party, meaning she was in communication with him all along. I could see it anyway cause she was on her phone ‘texting’ as I drove to the club.
Incase you are wondering, she is a hot 19 year old and I am 28. Dude you should see her, she’ll blown you away, she’s a beauty but I now know she’s just in this relationship for fun and nothing else so I will also play her game.
I feel like a fool trying to be faithful and all along she’s seeing other guys from what I have seen. That party had some fine ass women and there I was playing the loyal boyfriend. You are right, no amount of cash can secure loyalty from a woman. It’s only been 8 months and yet I have pampered her from head to toe, taking her to Coast… Watamu daddy! We’ve been to Naivasha several times. New clothes, shoes, you name it, her wish has been my command. Is it worth it really?
Maurice replies,
My good man. I hear you loud and clear but she’s 19. We both know why you are dating her, she makes you feel good about yourself as a man, your ego is up there because of her and I’m sure she’s hot but unfortunately for you she’s willing to share her loving ways. Don’t lie to yourself…. you will not hack playing her at her game, why? Because you have invested emotions into this relationship. If it was just a fling then maybe you could manage to play each other but right now I would bet against you, so do yourself a favour and leave her for your own well being. She’s only 19 but she will break your heart in ways you never thought possible.
mauricetherapy 
At 19 wanaringa. By the time they’re 30, they wonna frog-march you to the altar. If that fails, you’re spermjacked hence the single mum epidemic.
Oh yes,at this age to 22,thy thnk time is on thre sde,wait til thy r 26,my freiendz ths wmen behave like animalz with fr a man thy can tek hme or to thre parentz,myslf hve bn a victim of this and this pal chic requestd me to accmnpny her to sam family facntion,and since i was bored tht wknd,i dint mind,shock on me wen we reachd at thre plce,maze i patad the paroz wth other relaz,antiz,kuoz,my friendz the namez i was bng calld waaaat,only fr to tel me tht since we are close i dont hold the whole issue on her,to save her skin i kept my cool.driving bak to nai weas jst akward all the way til she broke dwn n confssd hw she’z nw 28 and no man is instrstd on her and she has messd up pretty good opptntyz and like she has run out of luck wth thm,. Nway in a month alianza kuwa all over me n my plce mpaka i noticd she was tryng to sideline my chic(hateing),and even told me at sam time wen we were hvng drinkz tht she wouldnt mind carryng my baby since am knwn kwao,i blamed tht statemnt on the drink bt BROTHERS,lisemalwo lipo na kama halipo laja.my point is this,at 19 they are doing wat we dd at tht age(thnk we r good),wait til thy r 25,ull laugh ur assz off,thy wil b willing to b even the other woman,look at the case my chic pal,she even doez my washing samtimez nw its bn 3mnthz since the ka drama. Dude at 28,u have no room for teenage galz,at ur age ur career is defining u.so look fr other chicz btwn tht age to 24 n ul b suprsd hw mny r welling just lay u or mayb her palz.bt note tht age is still eprmtl.
A guy, do yourself a favor and get past this girl. Note, it’s g-i-r-l. At your stage in life, your ambitions are incompatible. Maurice is probably right – you’ve both got what you wanted when this thing started. But she ain’t ready to be tied down and you certainly can’t be prepared to be a slot in a host of appointments. All the best.
Girls love money. Make no mistake about it. Doesn’t matter if she’s a choir girl. Use your money to make more money. Don’t spend more than 10% of your net pay on entertainment. No woman will respect a guy who’s spending a fortune on her but is paying rent.