Hi Maurice,
I am only 19 so you can’t say I have lots of experience but I have dated 6 guys since I turned 18. My first sexual experience was just that an experience that I would rather not have again. He managed to penetrate me but it took ages I almost gave up and whats with the whole it hurts vibe that I kept hearing from other girls? The guy must have been small but he did pop it eventually. I don’t really know why I’m writing to you I guess I’m curious about your thoughts on my experiences. I turned 19 last year in July and until then I did not really know how it felt to have an orgasm. I met this guy, he’s like 31 and boy did he teach me a lesson or what. He was very strong and just kept going and I didn’t want him to stop. I don’t know what he was doing but he was hitting the spot, I lost control of my body and I came countless times. At one point he thought I was faking but after he saw the wet patch it turned him on even more.
My friends had told me that a woman can only cum once or twice during sex, I must be the exception because it was free flow for me. I had never sweated before him and my vagina was on heat literally. We had to start using lubrication but it was worth every drop of sweat. Oh, I got hold of your DvD that you give out at your sessions and wow, the last scene is awesome. I actually followed the instructions for 2 weeks and I managed to squirt. I could believe it, I thought I had pee-ed on my bed. It was surprisingly odourless and clear like water. Why is it that when he is inside me he can’t make me squirt and yet I still feeling like cumming?
Maurice replies,
You made me laugh with the ‘he was very strong’ statement. The actual ability is more about stamina and mind control, when it comes to men you either have it or you don’t,the guy you slept with has stamina which keeps him going, it keeps the motions alive and in-turn he get you there ‘to the point of no return’ where the sensations start to linger and before you know it you orgasm.
Now for you to squirt considering you are a novice in the art of squirting you need to play with yourself until your mind and your G-spot are linked ‘mentally’. You will find that although you can squirt you still have to insert your fingers 2 inches and using the ‘come here’ finger motion you will stimulate your upper vaginal wall. It is paramount that when you play with yourself; you need to close your eyes and go into a state of meditation in other words concentrate on the pressure points that make you feel like exploding within the G-spot area. Once you link that to your mind then in time you will only need to touch your clitoris and ‘walla’ you will feel that urge to release your fluids.
Word of advise don’t listen to theories that your friends have because 99% of the time its pure hearsay and a lot creating of theories to stay relevant in social circles. Another thing I want to clear up is, every woman can squirt, the only reason for a squirt-less sex session is fear of the unknown, meaning one is letting their inhibitions take over. The sensation is pretty much like pee-ing so it’s no wonder a woman will hold back from that urge in fear of pee-ing and embarrassing herself. All I can say is if you feel that sensation just let go and enjoy the journey.
You had asked about a man making you squirt while inside you. Well, once you have the mental capability to trigger the sensation by visualising the ‘pleasure zone’ in your mind you will then set off a series of events within your body that will send messages to your nerve endings around your G-spot and in time you will learn to squirt during intercourse.
For a man who is informed, making you squirt whether using his fingers, tongue or penis is the pinnacle of ego boosting. You feel like you have conquered the World. Taking of the tongue, if a man spreads your vagina gently and licks at your clitoris with an up and down motion he can actually trigger a squirt but it takes patience, it could take 45 minutes of licking and the strokes need to increase or decrease in pace in order to create a rhythm that will stimulate the nerves, the man needs to lick and watch your body language and facial expression so as to establish the rhythm that gets you aroused. Lazy men need not apply.
Take your time to get acquainted with your vagina, know it well, feel out your vaginal walls and locate sensitive areas that arouse you, they could induce an orgasm or squirt. Unless you try you will never know the peaks of your sexuality.
In-case a guy ever asks you why it takes the fingers to make you squirt, tell him it’s because fingers can bend upwards to touch the sensitive areas of your vagina that the penis if erect can’t, if he tried to bend his penis he would probably scream like a bitch.
My last word of caution is, if you choose to engage in the act of sex which has nowadays become a competitive sport please do keep safe. Make sure you are always protected, there’s no pleasure worth the risk.
I hve learned alot of lessons. Strickly on da words of advice…..!
What i really blive if a guy keeps going on n on nt stop..d girl realy like untill she came..n it is possible for girl to cm twice n 1 round, bt what i like most is when d girl is plyig by herself……so lovely.
Heh! Ok… Clearly I need a copy of that DVD
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What an education, would like to learn more about the sweetest sport!
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Am juelz and i have à major problem i dont have enough stamina to push on after round one please help me on how to gain my stamina back on Juliusmuthis@gmail.con please help