Women believe a man will sleep with anything that moves, there’s some degree of truth to it, but it’s not a fact. Men are visual beings who love the thrill of the chase and we need to be constantly paid attention to, enticed, stimulated by blood pumping visuals and generally made to feel manly at all times otherwise we get bored.
When as a woman you have a man who constantly pays you attention and likes to come home the mistake that, over time, women make is when you over look the attention you receive because it’s always th
ere and you then assume it will always be there. Please note this only applies to the guy who is faithful to his partner. Now because the woman is used to the pampering she lets her guard down by placing her man’s needs second or third to all other things in her life at the time. This is especially common with couples who have kids. When you let your guard down in any form of human activity you are setting yourself for a shocking awakening.
Does lack of attention justify ‘cheating’ well that’s a debate in itself but I wont touch on that for now but I will say that men don’t know how not to receive attention so after a few rejections he will undoubtedly look else where. Regardless of his commitment to his woman, a man’s hunger for his ego to be fed must not be over looked. His sexual gratification is fragile and years of faithful dedication to one woman can easily be terminated and end up being a habit to seek pleasures else where.
Some men will seek for this gratification away from home however if you have a house help who has certain features like well toned legs, thighs and day in day out she wears those tight T-shirts and short cheap but sexy minis, and now and again your man keeps bumping into her after she has just washed some clothes looking like she is a participant in a ‘wet T-shirt contest’. Her nipples and well rounded B to C cup breasts clearly visible through the almost ‘see through’ 70% polyester 30% cotton T-shirt then you are doomed if his eyes and her eyes lock on! It’s like a jet fighter that has just locked onto its target and the weapon is armed and fired. You can just imagine how intense the blast will be considering the forbidden fruit and the erotic energy released by lust.
You may have once been Miss Kenya but if you slip up at home you will soon be replaced ‘sexually that is’ by a woman with limited looks but she rides your man’s ego like the majestic waves that hit the sea shores over the rocks. It doesn’t help that your house help’s nature scent is also very enticing to some men, if anything the human natural scent turns on many men and the constant smell of that sweat can trigger a firm erection and result to explosive orgasms with the lust element in the mix.
Ladies it costs nothing be sexy because it’s not about the most expensive sexy outfit its about the willingness to make a man feel like a man everyday. Take your old T-shirt and cut holes in it ‘be creative’ cut a hole for one nipple to be in full view and the other to be partially seen and take an old stocking and get creative their I’m sure you know the key area of a stocking and surprise your man when both you moods are portrays a night of sexual intent and go with the flow. Whether you think you can dance or not, it’s not an audition, give it a shot and perform some sexy dancing, its all in the movements of the hips, legs, how you touch yourself suggestively and last but not least make sure your facial expressions are sexy, that can make or break a man’s libido.
mmh, now men are equated to animals, with no self control.
Well, our cousins are the primates!
It’s not about self control and it not applicable to all men, some men would rather have crate after crate of beer than indulge in any sexual act. But the truth is some men in regards to that ‘urge’ can resist and others can’t. That’s life, the one you end up with can not be determined as a guaranteed ‘keeper’.