I have said this a thousand times; women STOP your ‘pesa pap’ lifestyles and expectations. Some of you don’t even share your expectations you expect your man to read your mind! We are not telepaths nor do we communicate via blue tooth. Money does not fall from the sky neither should you apply unrealistic pressure on a man to deliver what he can’t.
Not everyman wants to drive a Jaguar and show off, I have seen men in their late 30’s and in their 40’s driving pimped cars, that is ridiculous, you premature ejaculators should get a mature hobby and give room to the teens, how women find you attractive displaced in that pimped car I will never understand the logic. Thankfully some men would rather be comfortable in their jobs and they usually make sure they provide what they can ‘afford’. We have a culture of comparing ‘who has what’ and trust me money does help but it can break up the best of relationships.
Women, no all but many of you, STOP spreading your legs based on the horse power of a man’s car. And to the men, especially to those so called ballers ‘my ass’, you are also part of the problem. STOP courting women with fake lifestyles that you cannot maintain, tell a woman exactly what you can afford to sustain so that she chooses to stay or leave, if she runs off regardless of how ‘HOT’ she is consider that a blessing because she was going to make your life hell in the long run.
Lastly, to those men who are sleeping around with their boy’s girlfriend or wife STOP it, you are breaking an old code between men. I know some of you quarter century dudes have no idea what I’m talking about when I say ‘code’, in short mingle but don’t shit at your door step. If you don’t get my drift go back to school or go ask an older guy what I’m on about.
Personally I think you should face a firing squad if you break the code. If you have to sleep with your friend’s woman to prove to yourself that you are a man then you are less of a man than you think. You probably have self esteem problems and your ego is heightened by such ‘no go zone’ actions. You need help.
Word!