mauricetherapy

Dear Maurice,

You may remember me or you may not but I and four of my girls organised a venue for one of your practical sessions where you made one of us squirt and some of us were shocked even though we had told you we had seen a well known woman demonstrate how to squirt. I still can’t believe you made my girl squirt using your fingers.

Honestly I did not believe that every woman can squirt, one because personally I’ve always had a problem reaching orgasm either the guy would be a one minute guy or the guy no matter how hard he tried just could not get me there. After your session where I got to see my pal squirt I had some hope, I thought it was a trick at first, and I’m writing to tell you that I squirted for the first time the other day and it was very enjoyable. It took a while for me to trust that it was not urine about to come out. I remember you said I should just let go of my inhibitions and there came this urge to explode, as you described it, and when I did let go the sensations were awesome though I was a bit worried that the guy with me would run off thinking I was peeing during sex but guess what he actually knew about squirting and as you said it really boosted his ego and he further made me squirt about an hour later.

Maurice as much as I loved every moment and the new experience knowing that to squirt is not a myth or trick my dilemma now is that I was not with my man. We are not married but we have dated for 3 years, our sex life which I thought was ok has now been over shadowed by this new experience. My man cums in about 10 minutes, he chills for a bit then he goes on for another few rounds but it’s rare for me to cum unless I play with myself after he cums which at times is frustrating for me. What do I do because this other guy really knows where to touch “fuck he makes me scream”, he just knows how to read my body I was very surprised when he made me feel like having an orgasm within a few minutes I’m so confused. Can I blame you for putting that thought of wanting to experience squirting in my mind???? I need your help to move forward.

Maurice’s reply:

Well well well I’m glad you got to squirt but as I take in the compliment of sorts I can’t really say that I discussed exploring your sexuality with another man other than your boyfriend or husband in relation to the talk I gave before the practical session. I do not want to get into the details of how you met this other guy and what made you have sex with him but I’m sure if you hadn’t squirted you would not be writing to me, I may be wrong but I can bet I’m more or less right.

I think the question you should ask yourself is if your 3 year relationship was a ‘safe zone’ depending on how it started, was it a relationship that just developed and both of you just thought not to question if there was any direction or realistic common ground that could sustain the relationship. It is not uncommon for relationships that were not meant to be ‘long term’ to manifest into something ‘serious’ then years later both or one person realises they haven’t a clue why they are still holding onto a partner they care for but are not in-love with or have lost the excitement of being together. This is when people fall into the ‘let’s see how it goes or let’s hope for the best’ scenario. It is not an easy decision, what I do know is that you need to evaluate your relationship status, were you really ready for a long term relationship if you look back now, can you forget the new guy and live with this secret, how will your man react if you decide to tell him, are you even thinking of forgetting about the new guy, is it possible, these are questions only you can answer.

My advice to you is whatever you decide, do it based on your personal needs not out of guilt or obligation. Yes it sounds selfish but it can be the decision that leads you on a path of misery or releases you from a life of regret. Let me know what you decide, we could always meet and have a candid chat.