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Dear Maurice,

I have a urgent problem that requires an urgent remedy. I am a newly wed. I only dated my man for 10 months then we got married. During this period unlike other relationships we agreed to wait for our wedding night to make love. The anticipated night finally came and we tried to have sex but it was a disaster.

I love my husband and I know he love me back but he just has a very thick and long dick. In short his dick cannot fit inside me and I am scared of trying sexual positions with him and he really wants to perform doggy. I do want to spice up things in the bedroom to please my man and I am eager to have a healthy sex life with my husband. Please help a sister out.

What can I do?

 Maurice’s reply:

Congrats on your wedding my dear.

There are two positions that will at least keep you from hurting but before we get into that you and your man need to lubricate to make sure the friction between you is minimised. Your readily available KY jelly from the chemist or supermarket will be sufficient. Vaseline well applied on the penis usually does the trick to smoothen things along; useless you react badly to petroleum based products.

Position one:

With you in the doggy style position at the edge of the bed, bend your back downwards so that your head touches the bed surface. In this position your ass will be elevated by your kneeling posture, spread your legs apart slightly making sure you maintain a comfort zone cause you might be there for awhile if your man can thrust for a while.

Position two:

Take your missionary posture, part and pull your legs back as far as you can again maintain a position that is comfortable for you. This will allow for a smooth penetration.

Speaking of penetration, for both the above position to induce excitement and thrilling sex the following must be followed to the letter.

1) Cause you man possess quite a massive shaft he must be well lubricated and so should you. If anything apply some 4 play to excite you and stimulate natural your juices and enhance the thrill before you try intercourse.

2) Your man should gently penetrate you, two to three inch to start with cause usually men with massive shafts have girth (wider penis circumference). Sometimes it’s not the length but the girth that hurts the woman.

3) Your man should follow your reaction to his penetration where basically you are in control of the speed of his thrust. I recommend slow movement ‘in and out’ till your vagina gets used to this foreign mass!

If we are talking about a penis that is 6 inch long or more then always make sure he knows not to thrust deep (you must tell him how deep you want it), without limits instructed by you his penis can inflict damage to your vagina or bowel system if you try anal sex. Lead the way and let him pleasure you, after a while he will get to learn how the areas of your body react and he will take over ‘if you wish’. The key is communication at all levels.

Hope this helps discover new pleasures. Truth be told many women have experienced their greatest orgasms through doggy, anal or with their feet placed on the man’s chest as he suspends his upper body using his hands, it like missionary but you bend and lift your legs and place your feet on his chest. He should make sure he does not use your legs as leverage otherwise you will get tired quickly from his weight.