Foreplay is vital when it comes to keeping the fire burning in a couple’s sex life. For many women while cooking you tend to fire up the pot before the actual cooking starts, the same applies when it comes to foreplay. It is the fueling ingredient that leads to extra potent intimacy. Another big part to the journey of ecstasy is communication while performing the act of foreplay. This is the ample time to put on your sexiest voice and explore your man’s body, ask him where he likes to be touched, ask him what turns him on. For most men foreplay is the sexual show of intent, that mental picture alone can be a very big tease. The anticipation builds so much that he can’t control himself so you have to slow him down ‘tame him’ with your erotic voice, whispers, let him lead you to his pleasure zones; whispering in his ear will both arouse him and tickle him depending on his sensitivity. Foreplay is all about having fun, teasing each other, leading up to an ultimate night of playful intimacy.
Here is some treasure hunt foreplay you can incorporate into a night of surprises and erotic pleasure. What you need is a writing pad, a pen, three A4 size envelopes. I know, those are not sexy items at all so here’s what you are going to do for your man on this particular day or night. Let’s assume it’s a Friday and you’ve been at work the whole day but you make sure that you energise your thoughts that whole week with positive energy. Sometime in the afternoon call your man and ask him to be home at 9pm sharp. Make sure you have arranged for a private night, just for you and your man.
Now you arrive home well before him. Take off the panty you have been wearing the whole day and put it in a presentable envelope and seal or container of your choice. When your man finally gets home he will open the door and go straight into the sitting room where he will find an envelope with his name on it (it is OK to give him a hint of where to look when he gets home). He will then read the seductive note inside which you will instruct him on where to go next. By now his heart will be beating fast with anticipation, he knows something hot is on the menu tonight but he hasn’t a clue. Your next instruction will lead him to your panty which in this case is the ‘hidden treasure’ that will lead him to the secret garden.
Next to the envelope hosting the panty you will plant another note in another envelope, instructing him to remove the content of the envelope next to it. He should then proceed and smell your panty especially the vaginal area, kinkier still he should put your panty in his mouth to soak up your vaginal erotic scent. He should sniff your panty so good that he feels intoxicated by your natural scent. By the time he gets to your location in your home his testosterone levels will have peaked. Men can smell a woman’s natural scent unconsciously, yes it’s that powerful. After smelling your panty for a few minutes, you will then lead your man to you with other female garments that will arouse him just by sight alone. It should be a trail of your sexy underwear that gets him to the bedroom door. You can also use chocolate cubes, not too many, you want to get him horny not full.
What should you be wearing? Well, many women tend to go over the top and buy themselves expensive sexy lingerie, there’s no need. If your man’s sexuality is in order then what you can do to really get him going with his member erect; is to wear torn stockings. Make sure that the tares are sexy, get creative, and make sure there’s a slight tare between your legs so that he can bathe in the Alpha male feeling of thrusting his penis through the stocking. That will give some men a feeling of might, power. Also take an old t-shirt and apply a tare around one nipple are and on the other side be a bit obscure and have a tare below or above the nipple area. Ladies, that desirable look I have just described is a sure winner and it will definitely turn your man on. When he enters the room, your sexy new look will for sure sustain his manhood otherwise known as an erection, take him by the hand and tell him to lie down and from there on start to tease him till his member begins to throb. Lick his outer ear, lick his neck ‘slowly’, in short, lick him from head to toe ‘literally’ and when you get to his shaft gently tease him with a slight lick on the shaft’s head and by-pass the area for now. Head south and as you explore his body with your tongue ask him where his most sensitive areas are and play with his mind which feels like exploding by now. Foreplay can last 30 minutes to even 2 hours. It all depends on your creativity in bed. However, prolonging intercourse for majority of men for 20 to 30 minutes of foreplay is sufficient time to get his libido juices going and in-turn he will get yours going as well as he explores your secret garden (your vagina).
Wow, so nice,but must find a way to get him to shower first.
Joanne….trying to get him to shower first will kill the anticipation and thrill
Couples, especially women should refrain from showering, your natural scent is more of a turn on to most men than those cosmetics that you so rely on.
Maurice are you really Kenyan, the way you think, anyway its refreshing to know there’s still hope with Kenyan men, where can we find more of you
You’ve painted my thoughts into writing.He doesn’t like a whisper in his ear or a trail of kisses, or my hands tracing, slowly lingering on his body. He says he feels very ticklish! Can you recommend another method or way?
@Neema….what you need to change is the way you ‘touch’ him, with touch you can either tickle or arouse your partner. however there are certain sexual touch strokes that can make one ticklish. You need to communicate with your partner and find out what areas of his body arouse him most. You need to establish your own formula through his sensitive pressure points.
Forgive my bad manners. I recently stumbled on your blog and i really love it. Every girl should have it on bookmark. i hope you are well and had a lovely weekend.
Maurice, you are good with your words, do you apply equally as good?
Expound on what you mean by ‘apply’ ?
Am also new to your blog Maurice and wondering how I hadn’t heard of you or stumbled upon it sooner. I just love your candidness and openness and you say it like it is but with a nice touch. I’ve really been missing out. I actually sent you an email earlier today on your upcoming Forum. Have a love-filled weekend.
Am equally new….but loving every word maurice… seems ve seriously missd out alot.
Maurice is it true that the man likes a woman’s natural scent? Most of us feel self concious because of our natural smells which may vary in everyone and for several reasons from heat to anti-biotics and for some hygene too. I personally SCRUB the daylights out of the nether-regions…. I cant fathom my man stuffing my knickers that I have worn all day into his mouth…but I can try that. Hope it wont back-fire……?