mauricetherapy

Firstly, when you come to me for help please do not turn into ‘Mr and Miss know it all’ because clearly you wouldn’t need me if you knew how to resolve your problems, yes people in an ideal World are entitled to their opinion, however by the time you come to seek my assistance your opinion is worthless and time wasting.

It takes two to tango. There’s a reason why that statement is used, it does not take a nuclear scientist to work out that two people who allege to love and care for each other and ‘really’ want to mend their relationship will….

(a) Follow my program to the letter

(b) Email me with feedback at the specified day (without fail)

(c) Will not give me some BS excuses of why they could not communicate

(d) Will not expect me to push them along, I can only guide you but I will not spoon feed you (its a twosome not threesome)

Secondly if you really want to be with your partner you will make time, find time, allocate time to follow my program willingly without having one of you more committed than the other. Lack of interest and effort especially in my book only tells me that you like spending your hard earned cash on therapy that you won’t even take serious. Some of you have been disappointed with the program I give to follow, why? Because it’s not what you wanted as a solution, well if you already knew of the remedy ‘why do you need me’?

The programs I give are there to test your true commitment to each other, to evaluate your eagerness to spice things up between you. Couples that have followed the programs I give them depending on their situation have had great results over time in regards to improved openness which leads to better communication. With their newly found code of honesty, the honesty is not thrown back at their face as it was before. When you give a human being who wants to be with you exclusively ‘freedom of speech’ then you find they will gradually open up to you instead of sharing with others who may have negative energy to dilute your bond.

Relationships are not hard. They are made hard by the unrealistic bi-laws set within them with a mix of incompatible couples living together.  Some of you will follow your partners will, their expectations, their rules, their terms, their word without question only for you because you are human to eventually one day say ‘you have had enough’, that moment may come 12 years into the relationship. That is 12 years that you can not give each other back so quit ‘acting’ and state what makes you happy and if you both understand each other’s needs you may actually get to accomplish your vow of ’till death do us part’.