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Men and women we all send signals to each other through body language. Some of us have mastered the art of reading the right signals that avoid embarrassing outcomes from mixed signals. Let me introduce you to the Alpha male. He is witty, charming and very confident, he has a sense of arrogance that women like, and he has the mentality of “I have nothing to lose and everything to gain”. He is the guy in any social arena that can either be very visible or he blends in but in a very calculative way.

He takes no chances when he interacts with women; he has learnt how to read a woman’s body language. He will meet a woman and start to chat her up as he assess her interests by observing her face, yes he can tell within minutes if a woman is interested in him, it’s all in the eye contact and positive facial expression. Once he is certain that there’s a seed of interest depending on his agenda, for the night, he will determine through their conversation whether the woman is looking for ‘a good time’ or she just finds him ‘manly’ and more interesting in comparison with the other men at that particular venue. If she is worth his time, he will stick around and charm her some more, lay a foundation he can build on. What I’m saying is, if she is worth the ‘marinating period’ (when a man doesn’t rush a woman into having a one night stand, he exchanges numbers with her to enjoy the spoils at a later date). Many Alpha male use this strategy, it’s like hunting plenty of stock for the winter or dry spells. This is how it works ‘talk to plenty of women you desire’ exchange numbers, keep flirting for a period of time (weeks, months) and the more women you connect with the better the odds of getting laid over the months to come, they are simply marinating like meat to be cooked later. Hence why some men ask their Alpha male friends “how do you keep getting laid so often”, well that’s how. Talking of friends, in almost every click of ‘boys’ there’s undoubtedly an Alpha male who always gets praise from his buddies, he scores highly with the ladies. Now you know how.

I have mentioned ‘eye contact’ has one of the key indicators for an Alpha male. A good example would be the reason why when you want to evaluate ‘the truth’ you will most of the time ask the person to ‘look you in the eyes’. The Alpha male uses that technique to filter potential attraction. When he goes to a club an Alpha will not sit anywhere, if you observe closely over a period of club nights you will notice that within a click of friends the Alpha male will always want to be in-front of the pack so that he can select a suitable position to achieve the best visual of all the women at the venue. Sometimes he is known to sit faces the ‘ladies room’ to visually screen them as they pass by. He is a true predator.

The Alpha male will sit at his most suitable place and attempt ‘eye contact’ with several women of his taste. When a woman makes eye contact with him, and then she looks away more than two or three times, that to a Alpha male is a sign to engage. When he approaches her to spark dialogue if the woman maintains eye contact, she is definitely interested, an Alpha male will know this better than most men. If she happens to break eye contact, that may signal that she may have just been admiring and nothing more but he will still reach her side and give her his business card after a brief chat, he will make sure that he makes it clear that he wants her, with the card in her hand she is now either going to dispose of it or keep it. Most of the time women will keep the card out of curiosity. And you know curiosity eventually kills the ‘pussy cat’ if you get my drift! That’s the perfect marinating strategy.

The Alpha male also has other signals that he looks out for, such as a woman playing with her hair or playing with her neck in an almost ‘sexy motion’, this is to draw his attention.  It’s an unconscious action that women perform when they see or feel something that provokes a moment of thrill, excitement or desire. Another massive give away is in the movement of a woman’s arms or hands, the Alpha male will keenly observe her motions and decide when to strike. The Alpha male understands nonverbal signals and translates them with a very high success rate. While engaging in conversation an Alpha male will quickly asks questions ‘about her, her interests’ that will give him an edge over other males, he will want to take charge at the same time be very attentive watching her every move and listening to her every word. He knows how to compliment her without sounds ‘fake’. Over time he will have mastered to notice newly done hair, nails, and a unique item on her body like a dress, bracelet, chain, and tattoo. All these things he looks for make it easier to talk about things that relate to her, hence why many men fail in the initial engagement level because the woman notices that the man is trying to break the ice repeatedly as he seeks to find common ground, trying too hard to impress, when topics of discussion are staring at him right in the face but unlike an Alpha male other men take awhile to notice and to finally get a woman’s interest.

In a nutshell why do women like the Alpha male? Well he is confident and has a very manly assertive nature and he knows how to judge the degree of assertiveness depending on the woman, he easily adapts to any woman’s interest. I’m sure women are asking if an Alpha male can be a suitable ‘boyfriend’ or ‘husband’. The answer is yes the Alpha male can be the most loyal dedicated man, if he decides to give; he gives his all, the only downside to an Alpha male, if I can call it that is that he wants the same affection accorded to him. A woman who gives less will soon find herself confronted with his disappointments. The Alpha male will always voice his concerns; he likes to maintain a good thing so he will fight for it till he can do no more. And yes indeed he can be the player of players but when he meets the one woman who keeps him motivated and feeds his World with positive energy, constantly soothing his ego, he will stay loyal giving the woman overwhelming attention.