Being ‘honesty’ is only appreciated in certain forums however between women and men it seems to not benefit the men even though women demand for it. I could give example as a therapist but we would be here all day and night.
The word ‘Love’ should be associated with the human ability to ‘care’ for another human being period but from years of experience in my therapy field the word is usually used (mostly by men) to either convince, deceive, attract, confirm or assure the opposite sex, all 5 words are strategically placed in sentences to gain access, to gain a level of trust, we all know where I am going with this so I don’t need to expound.
Have the balls to state your case without using the word ‘Love’
However as they say there is always two sides to a story or situation, for instance women who may disagree with me will say that they need the word(s) to be uttered by a man (or woman) to feel secure and yet many can attest that after dating several guys the word ‘Love’ never got them anything in the long run but pure ‘heartache’. This means short term solutions are just like cheap stuff ‘its expensive to the human heart’ because a broken heart is the end result but they say a heart mends and one forgives the past hence why people have more than one ex.
The secure status I mentioned is what I call ‘artificial security’ which is just a trick of the mind but who is tricking who, most of the time you trick yourself into believing the word ‘Love’ carries weight, unfortunately we do not live in an ideal world where two people some how attracted to each other ‘for some reason’ can state their intentions ‘openly’ without judgment.
In short society has taught us how to manipulate each other with each of us being better at the game then the other hence why we have ‘players’ as they are called. People who intentionally embark on a journey to achieve their own gratification without ‘care’ for the other involved party.
Then again what do I know maybe I’ am wrong maybe I am right, who am I to categories and pigeon hole people and their intentions; that can only mean every body is happy and I must be on some really strong meds!
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