If it is paramount that you have some one on the side then play the game well, here are simple rules.
Keep both women happy (if your pocket allows, or if at all you can multitask).
Don’t be surprised that your woman will find out eventually and she may decide your relationship is not worth saving however for the unlucky men ‘she won’t leave you’, no no no she will just play you at you own game and ‘tough luck’ for you because you will never play that game better than a woman.
It is indeed every man’s nightmare to picture his woman in bed with another but you made your bed so please sleep in it without complaints. If your wife for instance is screaming another man’s name you must first ask yourself…. why are you sleeping around on her, ….why are you sleeping with another man’s girlfriend/wife not expecting the same to happen to you? It’s a fair question!
Decisions you make today will mold what tomorrow brings.
To the WOMEN:
When you decide to date a ‘taken’ man whether he has a long term girlfriend or wife remember this, it’s a position you went along with…. do not do the following:
1) Expect to replace the first lady (if I may call her that), why you ask? Well because even if you do replace her the unfortunate thing is the newly acquired title will only bring you the hurt your predecessor endured. Men love side-kicks cause they don’t bitch as much and when they do they use their feminine side to get their way, where as with many first ladies somewhere along the line the female side fades away and you know there can never be two ‘males’ in a relationship/home, it gradually destroys a man’s ego displacing his manhood which in-turn takes away vital attributes that keep most men interested in a woman like ‘libido’….it doesn’t matter how hot you are once a man’s libido is lowered and his ‘animal instinct of lust’ fades for you, you are surely doomed.
2) Don’t bitch when ‘first lady’ attends an event that your were invited to, he basically invited you because he wants to boost his ego by having his two women around, one of you he has to be with and the other when he looks at you he wishes he could get away and undress you (although he undresses you mentally many a times during the event) so being a ‘spare wheel’ isn’t that bad after all ah!!!!
3) Last but certainly not least remember the time you spend together is mostly dependent on his home commitments i.e daily/weekly schedule/routine….he is there when he can get away. Some men are in very loving relationships and multitask efficiently or should I say effectively! Others however are driven by the hunger for an ego boosting social arena hence why ‘you’ the side-kick are in his life. You are an ego fueling mechanism.
Oh just a polite word to the women who are planning to play their men as a form of ‘revenge’, please ask yourself is it worth it with the ‘health hazards’ of today and so that I don’t look like am denying you the opportunity ‘you can go ahead’, but have in mind that men are not emotionally attached to multiple partners, yes as women you are much better ‘players’ however by the time you adjust to your first ‘fling’ he will probably be on his 5th, 10th, 15th woman.
For men this game is a sport we take the game very serious but our victims are not taken seriously at all, it’s like Tuna fishing ‘harsh’ conditions are our territory.
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