Hi Maurice,
I gave birth and my libido lowered so I can’t find the psyche to have sex, please tell me what I can do to please my man? 
Maurice’s reply:
Hi, to be honest women respond to sex in varied ways after giving birth. Most likely your hormonal balance is swaying away from sex as your body adapts to your new condition. I do not recommend any medication to repair what is not ‘broke’. I know you may feel like you man is getting a raw deal but you can’t force hormones to mutate in such a short period. This is where partnership comes in, your man should be patient and let you body rest and for sure your sex drive will come back. Don’t punish yourself because your negative thoughts of not being able to deliver will only make the transition longer if you get my drift. There must be other interests that you both share that can replace the lack of libido ‘for now’.
DO NOT put yourself down. You are a sexy woman who has just given birth plus if anything you should rest your vagina for at least 2 months. Sex is paramount in a relationship but right now other common denominators of interest will have to do while you heal. When you get back to your usual self you will probably give him one hell of a sex marathon so maybe he needs to relax and gain his strength for that steamy night(s). So feel good and give it time.
My sex drive has reduced over the 2 yrs.I enjoy and love sex but sometimes not with my partner.this is actually affecting our marriage and we are constantly arguing over very petty issues.
Good Advice. What if your baby is 1 Year and 2 months and your sex drive is still very low? how do you deal with that?
Has your sex drive changed within the last 2 years is my first question? How did you feel about sex in general or with your partner?
Good advice maurice. no need to push yourself..im a great follower of ur therapy work n u doing a tremendous job..thumps up!
Thanks