mauricetherapy

A very curious girl in-boxed me and asked…. how is it that a man can claim to have ‘dated’ or should we say had flings with over 1,000 women in his life time and the question was…. is this possible? ….well its simple….

Take a guy who is now 30 years old, if he started seeing girls at 15 years… well that’s 15 years of experience, let’s now say he had flings with an average of 10 girls a month for 15 years… the math is simple 15 years x 12 months x 10 girls…… work it out, so  ‘no’ he is not bragging it’s so ‘do-able it hurts’.

The unfortunate thing is that this kind of guy is considered as the player type ‘why because he has had a string of girls that ‘exceed’ the limit of morality, commitment, society’s rules. Who sets these guide lines? Who follows them to the ‘T’?

It’s like the Mututho Law!!! Idiotic…. Who are we kidding, majority who will judge this guy unfairly will be those women who perhaps recall a time they were played so they categories this guy as the same breed.

Before you jump into conclusions and try and analyse how he managed to ‘date’ all these girls let me state before you do that ‘they were not commercial girls’. He met them in clubs, bars;  social arenas offer a mix of characters, there are those girls who are game for anything and there are those hoping to meet ‘Mr Right’.

This guy’s approach or strategy is simple and not time wasting. When he visits a social place he plays the numbers game, hopping from one girl to the next over the hours spent at this social place. The beauty of it is that with every flirt, with every hint of his intentions to ‘bed’ someone that night he then leaves the choice to the girls he has shared a chat with. So what do we have here, we have multiple girls who have all encountered this guy, all with a lingering thought of whatever flirty comment he implanted in their mind in the eventuality that one girl will be curious enough to want to know more about this ‘odd’ elusive guy. She will want to unveil the mystery behind this guy. There you have it, she has taken the bait, she’s hooked and he reels her in. Curiosity always killed the cat if you get my drift!

Now that he has a sure ‘shag’ for the night and he has from the beginning made it very clear that he only seeks a no strings attached affair and the girl is game its a mutual consent with no deception tactics involved.

It gets interesting though because during that evening he has at least chatted up 5 girls or more, numbers were probably exchanged whether they lead anywhere is anyone’s guess. However he has create an opportunity for curiosity to develop with each girl he spoke to meaning a marinating period has been achieved and in many cases a few of those who declined his offer on the night will one day say “what the heck at least the dude had balls to approach me and imply he wants to do me”, and by that time one of the social reasons that makes this girl call the guy is because her usual subtle approach guy (the guy who is always so sweet at first while courting) has disappointed her for far too many times so she tries something different knowing very well it could be the best thing or the worst mistake. So she gambles.

If we go back to the core reason for this article you will find that if this guy socialises just 2 weekends per month, Friday and Saturday, that’s 20 girls per month, and these are girls he meets in social places. I have not listed the ones he meets at his local kiosk for morning bread, local supermarket, friend’s place maybe a house party, family functions, weddings he may attend. Can you see how the odd just get better for him.

I will state this for a fact considering this guy does not believe in deception tactics to bed women. He is upfront with his intentions ‘AT ALL TIMES’ with women and he leaves it to the women to decide. This clearly shows that the day this guy decides his days of multiple women are done, the woman he decides to exclusively date or marry you can be assured that his commitment level will hold far more weight and truth then the usual sweet guy approach which is most of the time full of ‘sweet nothings’ that only lead to a hurting woman once he gets what he wants. The ‘sweet nothings guy’ is the player not the guy who has been with 1,000+ women by the time he’s 30. Judge him or not, at least he has the balls to spell out his intentions instead of feeding women with false hope.