Dear Matheka,
How are you mkubwa?
Maurice replies,
I am well my good Sir.
He replies,
I have a few things that I would like to cover with you if you do not mind?
Maurice replies,
Go ahead.
He replies,
Firstly, let me begin with thanking you for solving my manhood issues. Xpower Man Plus has done wonders for me. There are those moments a man cannot perform even when you are eager to and the natural supplements have changed my drive completely. I am 38 but I feel 17 again asante Matheka.
Maurice replies,
You are very welcome. It is just unfortunate that many African men have been brain washed to believe that good diet and exercise alone can sustain their sexual vigor. What it will sustain is procreation sex but not energy recreational sex which most seek. Not forgetting that before our colonial masters stripped us of our way of life, for Centuries men on this Continent consumed herbal remedies every day as a way of life.
He replies,
It took me awhile to figure that out but now I understand that our body is like a car and it needs fuel to perform some of the off road challenges I like with vaginas😂 Matheka I hear you vaginas need happiness. Some of my boys are keen follows of yours. We are part of your team masimba tribe👊 Now to the issues, if I can call them that!
There is this mami I used to see. It was a mutual casual affair that lasted 5 years then 8 years ago when she was 26, she told me she had found a guy who was interested in marrying her and that she wanted me to free her from our pact. Other than being amazing friends and fuck buddies we were under no obligation to each other and I guess that relationship was so sweet because of the clause of freedom. It was bitter sweet but I had to let her go. Last year in September we reconnected with the usual texting which we had promised not to ever do so as to safeguard her marriage. We hooked up for coffee and that led to my place where I must say things were even sweeter than before. Her vagina felt soft and untouched, so who knows what that husband has been doing and she has two kids. Matheka, I was under confusement! Her vagina took me by surprise as we had outdoor sex. I thought it would be a one off for old times sake kind of fuck then we go back to life but instead we have made it a routine to hookup. I have seen her twice a month since September and last week she told me that she misses cumming and other things I do that Mr does not entertain. Can you imagine in 8 years this guy has not given her oral sex. Her vagina has been bored 🥱 My question is, why now, knowing that I am not the imprisoning commitment type of guy what has caused her to want to stray from her husband? And she said some thing during pillow talk which you need to break down for me. She said, she is glad that I was not ready to commit because she knows we would not be having this type of sex if we were together officially!
Maurice replies,
I like your humour mate. Why now can be because of many variables that led to you reconnecting. One common reason is that after acquiring a husband and the family picket fence & dog scenario, she may have looked within and realised that she gain a family and stability to appease societal expectations but she did not acquire a compatible, a sexual friend not lover. I have counseled & mentored many couples over the years and one ingredient that many lack is sexual friendship. They have love for one another but zero or very little sexual friendship. Love with no sexual friendship is like adding salt to ice cream, in this case love being the salt. Salt makes a lot of dishes taste better but ‘sexual friendship’ is a solo ingredient that does not come as a package in any relationship format. Your ability to have a vibrant sexual relationship for 5 years when many in marriage today are struggling with sex within 2 to 3 years, is due to the dynamic of friendship & sexual freedom. You are what I call sexual soul mates and that is why she knows that in marriage your body capabilities would remain the same but your lust factor and sexual friendship would be affected by the psychology change that comes with a marriage setting. In short, the fun element was the psychological ingredient that drove your lustful energy. Love is a very strong feeling, however in relation to fueling sexual intent, it is useless.
He replies,
Mkubwa you are making a lot of sense that most don’t want to hear. Is it why she said that love in marriage is overrated and that by their 3rd year she realized that she was more in love with the idea of marriage and belonging than actually knowing what it would take for her live with a man for life. I listen to her keenly and just recently she told me that she still loves her husband as a fellow human but she has never been playful with him like she is with me.
Maurice replies,
You need to understand that from childhood many women have been sold the story of one day being married and loved. With that story comes a drive to accomplish the mandate of being the best wife to a loving husband and provider, inclusive of the pressure to be the best mother to their children. It becomes conflicting to some women when the bliss & glory of matrimony does not present itself as narrated by society. She enters a marriage where her freedoms and sometimes persona is changed or molded over time to suit her partner. I can only speculate that in your friend’s case she arrived at cross roads and decided to give herself the treats & pleasures that she knows only you can deliver.
He replies,
It explains a lot. Because sometimes it’s not sexual. She comes over and all she wants is to be held and she mentioned how she missed being kissed on the forehead. It is something I always did when cuddling her and I do not get it when she says that she does not have that level of sensuality with her husband 😳
Maurice replies,
Welcome to my World. There are men who do not indulge in their wife’s breasts because in their mind her nipples belong to their kids and yet their youngest is 12 years old! Their are plenty of conservative mindsets that need to be abolished. The reality is this, what you won’t do some other guy is willing to do on your behalf, that is the World we live in. Instead of all these pretend pleasantries during first dates, potential couples should be discussing how nipples and penises will be in ignored in years to come!
He replies,
If I may ask, based on what you have seen is love for life?
Maurice replies,
In books love lives forever. In non emotional sober reality, people fall in and out of love everyday. The notion that love lasts forever is accurate in the sense that it will out live us but in relation to human feelings. Sometimes it has an expiry date or it takes a break to breath. What I do know will conquer love is unconditional friendship. That is why you find friends disagreeing and still finding time to say sorry and the friendship thrives. Whereas in my opinion, many marriages are based on a conditional contract of expectations, hence why rifts and arguments seem endless because of weak friendships that are bound by a certificate.
He replies,
So what you are saying is that this is normal, that I can keep seeing her?
Maurice replies,
Only the two of you can decide whether to continue seeing each other or not. It is not my place to make that choice for you. Humans love attention & thrills, and humans will bend and break social order to acquire what they want when they want it. That my good Sir will never end.
He replies,
True that. Matheka, this mami wants to squirt. Forgive me but as a follower I have not been able to create the water works. I can’t seem to find her g-spot. She tells me that I lack patience. There is a day I touched the spot but lost it, her face was very frustrated considering how close we were. I told her about you, she had heard of you and she is open to a session. You need to help a brother out. Once I make her squirt you know I will be that guy 😀
Maurice replies,
I am very willing to help a brother out. All we need to do is schedule a date, time and place.
He replies,
May I suggest, as we plan for the session for the three of us can we have a Zoom session, a private one not group. I will pay you to demonstrate with your model how the vagina is handled for a woman to squirt. This session is for me, she will not even know about it. Then we can meet for her session. Oh, she has a fantasy of making out with a woman and I know you can make people’s wildest dreams come true.
Maurice replies,
The ball is in your court. Any delays will be on your side not mine. Let’s have your Zoom session as soon as possible.
UPDATE:
For those who have been asking whether I have resumed meeting people for sessions, the answer is YES. Apart from Zoom sessions, I have been having one on one and small group sessions. Most popular sessions are package two (with groups) and four (with individuals). I have a current offer when two women can take up package four together.
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