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Dear Maurice,

I am 22 years old. I am a campus student. I have been formulating how to share with you my issues since last year December. Friends & family have always told me that I am way ahead of my years and yet every morning all I see in the mirror is youthful me! Anyway, here goes. I am dating a guy who is 27 but my problem is that I find him so immature. He lacks assertiveness and he is very indecisive which puts me off. We have been dating for 4 years, but we do not live together and honestly in the beginning I thought I loved him but after sharing my dilemma with my ‘sponsor’ boyfriend, he said that it is most likely I was in love with the idea of being in love, which made a lot sense. Could this be the case, that I was in love with the idea more than the actual person?

Maurice replies,

Let’s back up a bit. So you have two boyfriends, the younger and the other is how old if I may ask?

She replies,

He is 46 years old and married with 3 kids. And Maurice, with all due respect I do not expect condescending remarks from you. I would like you to treat me like a grown woman. I hate when people remind me that I am young and assume that I am naive.

Maurice replies,

I can assure you that you shall not experience such with me. To answer your question, yes there are cases a woman or man have entered into a relationship to the point of getting married only to realise that they do not love their partner in the way they thought they did. Then again, this should not be surprising because humans fall in and out of love all the time. The societal enforced illusion is that love lasts forever, in books perhaps, in reality not so much.

As we continue, I would like to understand your core issue and the dynamic that caused you to have the two men in your life, it allows me to have a better profile of you.

She replies,

As we have established, when I met my boyfriend I was so happy to have a mature man’s attention and at 18 when a man promises you the World, you tend to fall for him of which I did. He spoke of waiting for me to finish my studies then one day he would marry me and take care of me. When I was turning 21, he and his friends throw me this amazing birthday at some club and that is the night I met my ‘sponsor’ boyfriend. He was there with his boys and as he said ‘I caught his eye’. What I loved about him was his eye contact, confidence and when he spoke he commanded me in a way that really confused me. Remember I was with my boyfriend, our friends, on my birthday and yet here I was so smitten by this mystery of a man. I do not know why or how we exchanged numbers but that was the beginning of a very steamy relationship. I thought my boyfriend broke my virginity but after what I felt waaaah! His penis really spread my pussy. I had never felt anything close. The pleasure of finally cumming was experienced, and he lasts so long he makes me moist. I get horny just thinking about it! My boyfriend had always refused to go down on me but my ‘sponsor’ boyfriend would lick & suck me in places that made me scream. I didn’t know I could scream during sex, like that really puzzled me at the time.

Maurice replies,

So I need to clarify a few things. Your boyfriend never made you orgasm, neither did he go down on you, is that correct?

She replies,

Yes Maurice that is correct. I only cum with my ‘sponsor’ boyfriend. Can you imagine dating someone who can’t make you cum?

Maurice replies,

Well, I do not possess a vagina but I can only imagine that state of not receiving sexual stimulus that ignites my pleasure senses. It is unfortunate that that has been your predicament.

I am curious, how did you get to learn about me?

She replies,

You gave a talk, that I attended at a campus in 2018. It was very enlightening and I loved your straight talk no chills approach. You taught two of my girls how to squirt, they both approached you after the talk. I am jealous of their experience. One even came with her sex toy and you showed her how to make herself squirt using the toy. I told my ‘sponsor’ boyfriend about you and he already knew of you and he is easy about me having a session with you. He has wanted to see me squirt for the last year. That is another thing about my boyfriend that I dislike. He is so insecure about my male friends. I have to pretend not to have male friends and only hook up with them when he is not around which I find so irritating and childish.

Maurice, what should I do? My mum likes my boyfriend and keeps reminding me that he will make a great husband one day.

Maurice replies,

I am guessing your boyfriend visited your parents to state his intentions and they approved?

She replies,

Yes he did. After 8 months of dating he insisted to meet my parents. He was not going to invest in a girl who’s parents would eventually reject him. Once I am done with my studies he intends to wed me.

Maurice replies,

Both men aside, here are the facts. Your primary focus should be your studies. Make sure you gain your qualifications that you will rely on to map out your life.  When it comes to who you should be with, whatever you do, do not follow what any one person or society expects of you. Follow what makes you happy. Many before you have embarked on journeys enforced by society and are today miserable or depressed. Do not join that club. Establish your own life structure and do your best to affiliate with positive energy at all times. Indulge in the thrills that give you most joy. As they say life is not a rehearsal, live it well and create your own happiness.

By the way, why do you call him sponsor boyfriend?

She replies,

Lol. It was my way of differentiating between the two men. They both finance my life though the way I think of it, is that one takes care of my well being and the other takes care of my bodily needs. Next month we must have our session. Thank you for your time.

Maurice replies,

You are welcome. See you next month.

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